❤️ Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️

Valentine’s Day is often seen as a celebration of romantic love, but it can be much more. It’s a day to celebrate love in all its forms—romantic, platonic, and most importantly, self-love.

For those in relationships, Valentine’s Day is a beautiful opportunity to honor and cherish your partner. It’s a time to appreciate the journey you’ve taken together and the love you continue to build. Whether it’s a romantic dinner, a cozy night in, or an adventure together, the day is yours to make special.

For those who are single, like I am, Valentine’s Day can feel isolating, but it doesn’t have to be. Love isn’t just about a partner—it’s about community, friendships, and self-acceptance. Take this day to celebrate your personal growth, your friendships, and the love that exists in your life in so many different ways.

If you’re single this Valentine’s Day, know this: our worth is not defined by our relationship status. We are whole, valuable, and deserving of love—especially from ourselves. Take today to do something that brings you joy, whether it’s treating yourself to something special, spending time with friends, or simply reflecting on how far you’ve come.

Back when I was in college, I read the book Finding the Boyfriend Within: A Practical Guide for Tapping into your own Source of Love, Happiness, and Respect. For me and many others who read the book by Brad Gooch, it was an inspiration at a time when I didn’t fully understand my sexuality, when I wondered if I’d ever be in a committed relationship, and whether that could ever happen if I came to accept myself for who I was—a gay man. I’m sure there were a lot of things other people who read the book got out of it, but for me, there was the message of self-love, even though at the time, I hated myself for being gay. 

One part of the book that has stuck with me all these years was to the notion of going on a date with myself. I could put on a nice outfit, eat a wonderful meal, maybe even light some candles to set a romantic mood—whatever I did  to pamper myself. Whatever I did, I would take myself on a date. I could even go out if I wanted and have a nice meal at a restaurant I loved. Whatever I did, I planned a real date with myself, and if that meant that I’d come home to have a more hands on “self-love” than I’d let myself do that too. 

Love will come when it’s meant to, but in the meantime, we should cherish the love we have for ourselves and those around us. Whether you’re in love, looking for love, or simply loving life, Valentine’s Day is a reminder that love exists in countless forms. Embrace it, celebrate it, and most importantly, never forget to love yourself.

❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Happy Valentine’s Day!