So We’ll Go No More a Roving

So We’ll Go No More a Roving
By George Gordon Byron

So, we’ll go no more a roving
    So late into the night,
Though the heart be still as loving,
    And the moon be still as bright.

For the sword outwears its sheath,
    And the soul wears out the breast,
And the heart must pause to breathe,
    And love itself have rest.

Though the night was made for loving,
    And the day returns too soon,
Yet we’ll go no more a roving
    By the light of the moon.

About the Poem

One of the things I’ve always loved about poetry is how a short poem can contain an entire lifetime of emotion. George Gordon Byron’s “So We’ll Go No More a Roving” is one of those poems. It is brief, simple, and deeply human. Beneath its quiet words is a reflection on love, exhaustion, desire, aging, and the realization that even the strongest heart cannot burn endlessly without rest.

There is something especially poignant in the line, “And love itself have rest.” For LGBTQ+ people, especially those who have spent years hiding, searching, or struggling simply to be themselves, that line can strike a particularly deep chord. Sometimes we spend so much of our lives fighting to be accepted, loved, and understood that we forget the soul also needs peace. Byron reminds us that even passion must pause to breathe.

The poem does not deny love or beauty. The moon is still bright, and the heart is still loving. Instead, it acknowledges that we are human beings with limits. There is wisdom in recognizing when to rest, when to be still, and when to simply let ourselves exist quietly beneath the moonlight rather than endlessly chasing it.

“So We’ll Go No More a Roving” was written by Byron in 1817 and published after his death. Though only twelve lines long, it captures themes common to Romantic poetry: love, longing, weariness, mortality, and the tension between passion and limitation.

The poem is believed to reflect Byron’s own exhaustion from the emotional and physical excesses of his life. Byron was famous not only for his poetry but also for his scandals, affairs, travels, and restless spirit. Yet in this poem, there is a surprising quietness. Instead of dramatic heartbreak, the speaker simply acknowledges that endless wandering and endless passion cannot continue forever.

One of the poem’s greatest strengths is its balance between beauty and sadness. The moon is still bright. Love still exists. Desire has not vanished. But the speaker recognizes that the body and soul need rest. It is a gentle meditation on human limits rather than a rejection of love itself.

About the Poet

George Gordon Byron (1788–1824), better known as Lord Byron, was one of the leading figures of the Romantic movement in English literature. Known for works such as Don Juan and Childe Harold’s Pilgrimage, Byron became famous throughout Europe for both his poetry and his controversial personal life.

Byron’s relationships, emotional intensity, and defiance of social expectations contributed to his enduring reputation as the archetypal “Byronic hero.” Though discussions of sexuality in his era were often hidden or coded, many scholars have noted Byron’s relationships with both women and men, making him an important figure in queer literary history as well.

He died in 1824 while assisting the Greek fight for independence from the Ottoman Empire, cementing both his literary legend and his reputation as a passionate, restless romantic figure.


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Happy Memorial Day!

I woke up this morning, fed Isabella, and then realized something wonderful—it’s a holiday, and I can go right back to bed. There are few better feelings than knowing you can pull the covers back up, settle in, and drift off for a little while longer without worrying about work.

So that’s exactly what I plan to do.

I hope everyone has a relaxing and peaceful Memorial Day, whether you’re spending it with family, grilling outside, traveling, or simply enjoying a quiet day at home. And today, we should also remember the men and women who gave their lives in service to this country and the sacrifices they made.

As for me and Isabella, we’ll be celebrating the holiday with more sleep.


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Trusting the Unseen Path

“Just as you do not know how the breath comes to the bones in the mother’s womb, so you do not know the work of God, who makes everything.”

— Ecclesiastes 11:5

There are moments in life when we desperately want answers. We want to know why certain doors closed, why some prayers seemed unanswered, why our journeys have taken difficult turns, or why we were made the way we are. For many LGBTQ+ Christians, these questions can become especially heavy when faith and identity seem to collide with the expectations of others.

Yet Ecclesiastes reminds us of a profound truth: we do not fully understand the work of God.

The writer points to the mystery of life itself. We cannot see how breath becomes life or how a child is formed in the womb, yet it happens according to the creative work of God. In the same way, we cannot always see where God is leading us or fully understand His purposes while we are living through them. Faith often means trusting before we understand.

The Bible repeatedly reminds us that God’s vision is greater than our own:

“For surely I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope.” — Jeremiah 29:11

That promise was spoken to people living in uncertainty and exile. They could not see the ending of the story yet, but God could. Many LGBTQ+ believers know what it feels like to live in uncertainty — wondering if there is a place for us in the Church, questioning whether we are truly loved by God, or fearing that our lives somehow fall outside His plan. But Scripture consistently tells us otherwise: God does not abandon His children.

Psalm 139 beautifully declares:

“I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” — Psalm 139:14

You are not an accident. Your capacity to love, your compassion, your resilience, your spirit — none of these are mistakes. Even when others fail to understand you, God still sees you fully and lovingly.

Sometimes we wish God would reveal the entire roadmap of our lives. Instead, He often gives us just enough light for the next step. Proverbs reminds us:

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own insight. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” — Proverbs 3:5–6

Trusting God does not mean pretending life is easy or that we never struggle. It means believing that even when we cannot see the whole picture, God is still at work within it. The painful seasons, the lonely moments, the unexpected detours — none of them are wasted in God’s hands.

Romans 8:28 offers another reassurance:

“We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose.”

Notice that Paul does not say all things are good. Some experiences are genuinely painful. But God can still bring goodness, growth, healing, and love out of even the hardest chapters of our lives.

Faith is often about learning to trust the unseen work of God. Just as seeds grow beneath the soil long before we witness the flower, God may be shaping our lives in ways we cannot yet perceive. What feels confusing today may someday reveal itself as grace.

So if you find yourself uncertain about the future, remember this: God’s understanding is far greater than ours, and His love for you is deeper than fear, shame, or rejection. You may not understand every step of your journey, but you can trust that God walks beside you through all of it.

And sometimes, faith simply means taking the next step while believing that God already sees the road ahead.


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Moment of Zen: Meditation


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A Quiet Start to a Holiday Weekend

I’m working from home this morning and then have the afternoon off. Because of that, when Isabella decided at 4 a.m. that she absolutely needed breakfast, I got up to feed her and then crawled right back into bed. Since that completely disrupted my normal routine, I almost forgot to write a post this morning. Thankfully, I remembered before the coffee had fully kicked in.

Hopefully, today will be easy and go smoothly. I have a few errands to run this afternoon, and then I plan to settle into a relaxing weekend. At least, that’s the hope.

For those of you outside the United States, you may not realize that this is a major holiday weekend here. Monday is Memorial Day, which means this weekend is generally considered the unofficial beginning of summer. Of course, you wouldn’t know that from the weather in Vermont. We’re under a freeze warning this morning. While people in warmer places are probably headed to the beach or the lake, I’m sitting here with coffee wondering if I should turn the heat back on.

I do wish I was headed somewhere exciting, but my only possible plans are to see The Mandalorian & Grogu, which opens in theaters today. I don’t go to the movies very often anymore, but I really enjoyed The Mandalorian, and I’d like to see the movie. Then again, holiday weekends usually mean crowded theaters, so I may wait and see how ambitious I feel.

My other thought—though not a particularly serious one—was going to the Burly Bears gathering tonight in Burlington. It’s one of the few gay men-centered social events in Vermont and takes place at one of the bars there. Every month has a different theme, and tonight’s is “007,” so it’s all James Bond-inspired. If I had a really great suit—or better yet, a tuxedo—I might actually consider going. Unfortunately, I haven’t bought a new suit since losing weight, and I don’t really want to invest in one until I’m certain my weight has stabilized or unless I suddenly need one for a job interview. So, James Bond sophistication may have to wait.

If you’re in the United States, do you have any Memorial Day weekend plans? And for everyone else, what are your plans for the weekend?

Whatever you do—or don’t do—I hope you have a wonderful weekend!


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