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I began my life in the South and for five years lived as a closeted teacher, but am now making a new life for myself as an oral historian in New England. I think my life will work out the way it was always meant to be. That doesn't mean there won't be ups and downs; that's all part of life. It means I just have to be patient. I feel like October 7, 2015 is my new birthday. It's a beginning filled with great hope. It's a second chance to live my life…not anyone else's. My profile picture is "David and Me," 2001 painting by artist Steve Walker. It happens to be one of my favorite modern gay art pieces.

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Thank God, I Glory in Thy Love!

Thank God, I Glory in Thy Love!
By Frances Sargent Osgood

Thank God, I glory in thy love, and mine!
    And if they win a warm blush to my cheek,
It is not shame—it is a joy divine,
    That only there its wild bright life may speak.

From that most sacred and ecstatic hour,
    When, soul to soul, with blissful thrill we met,
My love became a passion, and a power,
    Too proud, too high, for shame or for regret.

Come to me, dearest, noblest!—lean thy head,
    Thy gracious head, once more upon my breast;
I will not shrink nor tremble, but, instead,
    Exulting, soothe thee into perfect rest.

I know thy nature, fervent, fond, yet strong,
    That holds o’er passion an imperial sway;
I know thy proud, pure heart, that would not wrong
    The frailest life that flutters in thy way;

And I, who love and trust thee, shall not I
    Be safe and sacred on that generous heart?
Albeit, with wild and unavailing sigh,
    Less firm than thou, I grieve that we should part!

Ah! let thy voice, in dear and low replies,
  Chide the faint doubt I sooner say than think;
Come to me, darling!—from those earnest eyes
  The immortal life of love I fain would drink!

About the Poem

Frances Sargent Osgood’s poem, “Thank God, I Glory in Thy Love!” reflects a deeply spiritual and reverent tone, with themes of gratitude, faith, and divine love. Osgood often wrote in a lyrical style, and this poem is no exception. The rhythmic and melodic quality suggests it may have been intended as a hymn or prayer. The poem uses consistent meter and rhyme, which reinforce the devotional and meditative tone.

The poem’s repeated exclamation, “Thank God,” demonstrates overwhelming gratitude. This serves as both a declaration of faith and a personal testimony of divine grace. The phrase “I Glory in Thy Love” highlights the poet’s adoration and recognition of God’s infinite love. This is a central theme, suggesting that divine love is transformative and worth celebrating. The tone conveys humility, acknowledging the dependence of human beings on God’s love and grace. The speaker seems to place full trust in a higher power. The tone is fervent and joyful, marked by sincere devotion. The exclamation and direct address to God create an intimate atmosphere, as though the speaker is in a private moment of worship or prayer.

The language is simple yet powerful, emphasizing the universality of faith. Phrases like “Thank God” and “Glory in Thy Love” invoke a sense of awe and personal connection to the divine. There may also be nature or light imagery, common in Osgood’s works, symbolizing God’s omnipresence and goodness. One of my favorite Bible verses, 1 John 4:16, “And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them,” complements the poem’s central theme of celebrating and glorifying divine love. It emphasizes reliance on God’s love and the intimate relationship between the believer and the divine, mirroring the poem’s tone of gratitude and spiritual connection.

Osgood (1811–1850) was a prominent poet of the Romantic period in America. Many of her works explore themes of love, spirituality, and nature, often using a highly emotive and lyrical style. Her poetry reflects both personal experiences and broader cultural influences of transcendentalism and religious revivalism during her time. “Thank God, I Glory in Thy Love!” can be seen as a direct expression of the Romantic ideal of finding the divine in everyday experiences. It invites readers to reflect on their own relationship with faith and encourages a celebration of divine love as a sustaining force in life.

Romanticism was an intellectual and artistic movement that emerged in the late 18th and early 19th centuries, primarily in Europe, as a reaction against the Enlightenment’s focus on reason and the Industrial Revolution’s emphasis on progress and mechanization. It celebrated emotion, individuality, and the sublime beauty of nature, emphasizing the power of imagination and the depth of human experience. Romanticism laid the groundwork for later movements like Transcendentalism and Symbolism.

Osgood’s Romanticism may have inspired her to use biblical principals to look backward to early Christianity. Colossians 3:16-17 is a reminder to live in constant gratitude, inspired by God’s love. “Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” Likewise, 1 Chronicles 16:34 tells us to “Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever,” and 2 Corinthians 9:15 says, “Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!” These verses inspire a posture of thankfulness, acknowledging God’s abundant love, faithfulness, and grace in our lives.

“Thank God, I Glory in Thy Love!” exemplifies Osgood’s gift for merging personal emotion with universal themes of spirituality. Through its lyrical form and sincere tone, the poem resonates as both a hymn of gratitude and a celebration of divine connection.

About the Poet

Frances Sargent Osgood (1811–1850) was an American poet and writer known for her sentimental and lyrical poetry, as well as her contributions to 19th-century literary culture. She gained prominence during the Romantic period and was particularly celebrated for her emotive and accessible style, which often explored themes of love, spirituality, nature, and domestic life. She was also recognized for her dynamic personality and her connections within literary circles.

Osgood was born Frances Sargent Locke in Boston, Massachusetts, into a well-educated and artistic family. She demonstrated an early talent for writing, publishing her first poems as a teenager. Her marriage to Samuel Stillman Osgood, a portrait artist, led her to move frequently between Boston, New York, and London, where she became active in literary and artistic communities.

Frances Osgood’s works appeared in popular magazines and journals of the time, such as Godey’s Lady’s Book and The Broadway Journal. She wrote poetry, essays, and children’s literature, producing a large body of work that was widely read and admired in her day. Her style was characterized by its emotional sincerity, vivid imagery, and lyrical quality.

Osgood is perhaps most famously remembered for her relationship with Edgar Allan Poe. The two exchanged a series of public, flirtatious poems in literary journals, sparking rumors about their romantic involvement. Though their relationship was likely platonic, it contributed to Osgood’s fame, as Poe admired her talent and described her poetry as embodying “delicacy, grace, and genius.”

Frances Osgood struggled with health issues throughout her life, likely due to tuberculosis, which ultimately led to her untimely death at the age of 38. Despite her relatively short life, she left a significant mark on 19th-century American literature, representing the Romantic ideal of combining artistic creativity with heartfelt emotion.

Today, she is remembered not only for her poetry but also as a prominent figure in the literary culture of her time, balancing her public career with the roles of wife, mother, and socialite. Her work offers a glimpse into the sensibilities of Romanticism as it played out in American poetry.


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Monday, Again

It’s Monday morning, and as usual, I wish I was still in bed. Isabella let me sleep until a little after 5 am, but I did not want to get up to feed her. However, I did get up to feed her and to fix my own breakfast. It should be an easy day at work today. I will be the only person there. My coworkers are taking vacations today, one all week and the other possibly the whole week. We will only be open today, Tuesday, and half a day on Wednesday. The student’s on campus are gone for Thanksgiving, so that means we won’t have any student workers this week either. I doubt we will even have any visitors, although one or two might trickle in. Hopefully, it will be a quiet week. With that being said, I wish that I too had the whole week off and could just stay at home and go back to bed.

Have a great week, everyone!


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A Heart of Gratitude

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

1 Thessalonians 5:16–18

In the United States, we celebrate Thanksgiving on the fourth Thursday of November. In Canada, Thanksgiving is celebrated on the second Monday in October, and Germany celebrates it on the first Sunday of October. As those of us in the US gather to celebrate Thanksgiving this Thursday, let us take a moment to reflect on the true essence of gratitude. Thanksgiving is not merely a day or a meal; it is the spirit of the heart, a discipline of recognizing God’s goodness in every season of life. Thanksgiving is a time to reflect on our blessings and express gratitude. However, as believers, giving thanks should not just be an annual tradition—it should be a way of life. James 1:17 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” When we pause to thank God, we align our hearts with His, focusing not on what we lack but on His abundant provision.

For most of November, many Americans have not felt much to be thankful for after the results of the presidential election. Many of us have been depressed at the attitudes and actions of our fellow Americans and have suffered intense anxiety over what will happen over the next four years. With every announcement of a new cabinet appointment, the situation seems increasingly more dire. The inmates are gearing up to run the asylum. So, how can we give thanks when life feels difficult? The answer lies in trusting God. Gratitude flows from a heart that recognizes God’s goodness and faithfulness, even when we do not fully understand His plans. When we focus on His unchanging nature, we can find reasons to rejoice, even in the hardest seasons. Psalm 107:1 tells us to Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.” Remember that, in Christ, we have an eternal hope that surpasses our present challenges. In 2 Corinthians 4:17–18, Paul told the Corinthians, “For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So, we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”

Paul encourages us in 1 Thessalonians 5:18,“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” It is easy to give thanks when life is good, but true thanksgiving is found in trusting God even in hardship. Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” When we remember that God works all things for our good, we can thank Him even in trials, knowing He is refining us. Gratitude is a powerful testimony of faith. Jesus demonstrated this when He healed the ten lepers in Luke 17:11–19. Only one returned to thank Him, and Jesus said, “Your faith has made you well.” Thanksgiving sets us apart as people who recognize and respond to God’s grace.

This Thanksgiving, take time to reflect on God’s blessings, even in areas where you might not normally think to give thanks. For example, thank Him for lessons learned through challenges, for His provision in times of need, and for the gift of salvation through Jesus. Over the coming year, take time each day to count your blessings, whether big or small. Write down three things you are thankful for each day. Share your thanks with God in prayer and with others in encouragement. Let us remember the words of David in Psalm 9:1, “I will give thanks to the Lord with my whole heart; I will recount all of Your wonderful deeds.” Thanksgiving is not a fleeting moment but a way of life that honors God and transforms us. As we give thanks today, may our gratitude draw us closer to the Giver of every good gift.


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Moment of Zen: The Black Party

I did go to the Burly Bears Black Party. It was fun. There was a lot of eye candy, especially this one bartender. At times, there were three bartenders, and they were all hot. But, the one who fixed my drink was without a doubt the hottest guy there. He looked similar to the guy in the last pic, except he had a patch of chest hair between his pecs. I had fun people watching, but it was very crowded and loud. I stayed for a while and then decided to just go home.

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This guy looks a bit like the bartender.


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Tonight…Maybe…Possibly 🤔

As long as I am feeling well and get up the courage to actually do it, I plan to go out tonight and have a little fun. Since 2007, there has been a get together of gay men once a month called Burly Bears in Burlington. It’s basically a dance party at one of the bars. Burlington has LGBTQ+ events in a regular basis, and they are becoming more common in Vermont outside of Burlington as well. Most of that is centered on drag, which I love, and geared towards the LGBTQ+ community, which is great in itself. However, as far as for events geared towards GBTQ+ men, Burly Bears is the only thing out there in Vermont. Don’t get me wrong, inclusivity is great, but I also think there is a time when GBTQ+ men want to be surrounded but other men and not also surrounded by lesbians, which outnumber the GBTQ+ men in Vermont, at least 2 to 1. 

I haven’t been in a long while and I would love to go to the Burly Bears event tonight. I just get nervous and, you might even say, cowardly about going alone to an event like this. I can be a very shy, nervous, and awkward person. When I host guests at the museum, give tours, or teach classes, I am not particularly shy or nervous, though I am probably still a little awkward. I am always afraid when going to events like the Burly Bears that I won’t get up the courage to talk to anyone and no one will come up and talk to me. I know I probably sound stupid about this, and I should just get over myself. I am not the most confident person most of the time, and, let’s face it, gay men can be a little cliquish, especially gay men in Burlington, Vermont. The city of Burlington tends to separate itself from the rest of the state.
Anyway, tonight the theme for Burly Bears is the annual Black Party. As described on Facebook: “In the spirit of New York, Miami, and Montreal: It’s our Burly Bear Black Party!  Pull out those black shirts, shorts, and Ts! Get those leather vests, jocks, pup masks, boots, and harnesses out.” Wearing all black is not an issue for me. I have a lot of black clothes in my wardrobe, so that’s easy peasy. Putting myself out there is the difficult part. I have to admit, I loved black leather and that whole part of the gay culture, though I have never ventured much into it myself. I just need to make myself go, because I know once I am there, I’ll be ok, and if I’m not, I can always leave. There’s only a $5 cover charge and all proceeds go to Outright VT, so if I just go and leave, it’ll only cost me $5 that will go to a good cause anyway. Once I’m there though, I’ll get a drink and, hopefully, have a good time. If nothing else, they always have hot bartenders working at these events, and who doesn’t love a sexy, flirty bartender?

If you will, send some encouraging energy my way, because I really would like to get out more, be more of a part of the LGBTQ+ community in Vermont, and meet some new people.