Of course, I’m obligated to post a picture of my queen.

Or at least cute guys with fuzzy little bears.

I realize this one is a lion…lion, tigers, and bears, Oh my! 

If you want to see the uncensored version, you know what to do.

Who doesn’t love a comfortable couch?

I have a lot of pics of guys on couches, and I couldn’t just choose nine pics like I normally do. I whittled them down to twenty. The other ten can be seen if you click “Continue reading.” I think there are a few some of y’all will really like.

I don’t know a lot about Mark Ciccarelli. He’s an actor based in Los Angeles, CA and a former division II football player, who is presently exploring opportunities in film, television, and print. I came across his Instagram (@Mark_Ciccarelli), and I thought he was hot. So, he’s my Moment of Zen this week.

According to a recent survey, when given a choice, almost 60% of women prefer dating a man who owns a dog to dating a man who owns a cat. And almost 20% of women say they find Cat Dads to be somewhat or very unattractive versus only 5% who say the same about Dog Dads. The survey also found that men holding cats in their dating profile pics were viewed as 25% less attractive than even their selfie-taking counterparts who were not holding a pet at all. This survey tells me one thing, there are more Cat Dads for gay men. I am not a dog person, and honestly, I find men with dogs to be slightly more unattractive. I have a bit of a fear of dogs, so when I meet a guy who says he has a dog, it makes me pause to consider the attractiveness of the guy, because attractiveness is more than just physical aesthetics.

I also think that a man who has a cat is more likely to be kinder than a man who considers himself a dog person. That doesn’t mean I think badly of dog lovers but until you experience cats firsthand, you can’t really tell what it is to love and be loved by a cat.