bricks or milk, teeming over highways alongside us,
to teach geometry, or ring up groceries as my mother did
If you aren’t familiar with the whole saga, here is a brief summary of the events:
On September 11, 2012, Te’o said that he suffered the loss of both his grandmother and girlfriend within the span of one day. Te’o told many media outlets that his girlfriend, Stanford student Lennay Kekua, endured a car accident and died after battling leukemia. Deadspin reporters conducted an investigation and on January 16, 2013, published a story that said they found no record of a woman named Lennay Kekua and that the story of her death was a hoax. According to the report, the pictures published in the media supposedly of Kekua were actually taken of a friend of Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, a friend of Te’o’s. Te’o did not miss any games, saying that he had previously promised Kekua that he would play even if something had happened to her.Notre Dame addressed the story on January 16. The university said in a statement that “Manti had been the victim of what appears to be a hoax in which someone using the fictitious name Lennay Kekua apparently ingratiated herself with Manti and then conspired with others to lead him to believe she had tragically died of leukemia.” In a press conference, Notre Dame athletic director Jack Swarbrickconfirmed the university had hired private investigators to uncover the source of the hoax, and he clarified that Te’o’s relationship with Kekua was “exclusively an online relationship”. This conflicts with Te’o’s previous accounts of their relationship, which say they had met after a football game and that she visited him in Hawaii. Swarbrick said that Te’o informed Notre Dame of the situation on December 26th. He said he had received a call on December 6, 2012 while in Florida at an ESPN awards show, from the woman he knew to be Kekua claiming she was still alive. Despite the revelation that Kekua did not exist, former NFL player Reagan Maui’a claims to have met a woman who called herself Lennay Kekua in American Samoa in 2011. Maui’a said he was introduced to her through Tuiasosopo.
This is actually the only story that makes any sense at all. And even if it’s true, Te’o will probably deny it because, unfortunately, football players aren’t exactly the most welcoming of homosexuality.
We’ve seen rumors and heard stories about countless athletes in the past. But not since Troy Aikman have I been bombarded on email, text, Twitter and phone calls about the sexual orientation of any athlete the way I was today about Notre Dame linebacker Manti Te’o.
A devout Mormon at a Catholic school, a rugged football player — these are communities that openly reject homosexuality, some of the last remaining vestiges of the decaying closet.
I read this on the blog “I Should be Laughing” written by Bob. It was such a wonderful post, I just had to share it with you guys.
This is simple. This is about teachers, the kind we wish we all had, and the kind we wish everyone else had, too.
The students in this class were asked to write an essay about the “weight that I carry daily.”
One student handed in this letter:
Dear Mrs. __________,I wish to write to you about the biggest thing I carry. I’ve been carrying this since middle school and it’s been a huge weight on me since I discovered it. The knowledge of my sexuality has been with me for about six years now, and it was a burden for a great deal of the time. It wasn’t until recently that I started to slowly lift this off my shoulders. I’ve carried this for so long because of fear. I’m afraid of certain people finding this weight. I’m afraid of them finding the weight and thinking differently of me. Thinking negatively of me. Hating me. That’s why I carry it. I just don’t want to be hated. Or even worse, kicked out of people’s lives. I want things to stay the same, but I want to get rid of this weight. It’s weighing me down and keeping me from greater things, but again that fear comes into play and makes me think differently. The fear forces me to burden myself by carrying it even longer. Thankfully I’ve been able to set down minute portions of it, by sharing the knowledge that I am not “normal” per society. I’ve received mixed emotions. Some couldn’t care less about the knowledge. Some liked me even more for it. And ultimately, some detest me for it. But I care not for those that detest the knowledge. They can go off into their sad little world of bigoted hate. I couldn’t care less for them. I’ve been able to shave off a great deal of what I carry, but sadly , a bit remains. The bit that is reserved for my family. They will be the hardest ones to share the knowledge with, for I don’t know how they will accept it. . I have no idea if they will think nothing of it, or if they will reject the love I offer them, and disown me as their son, or brother, or nephew. That, like much of this cold, dark world, is unclear to me. And sadly, there is only one true way to know how this will turn out. The day I can finally remove this weight from me, liberate my world, is the first great victory in my life. That is the day i just can’t wait to see.
Best regards,
_____________P.S. – The main reason I’ve waited so long to tell you this is I just felt uncomfortable writing you this letter, and that I didn’t really know how it would be responded to.I apologize for any inconvenience my selfish feelings may have caused. Thank you for reading this. It’s a grand step in my journey.
I am honored to be witness to this weight being lifted off. You are an amazing, dynamic, compassionate, ‘with it,’ young man who will give the world a gift just by you being you offering your love & spirit. If people choose not to be comfortable with your honesty — their loss, my friend, their loss.
The English novelist Emily Brontë (1818-1848) wrote only one novel, “Wuthering Heights.” A unique achievement in its time, this work dramatizes a vision of life controlled by elemental forces which transcend conventional categories of good and evil.