Monthly Archives: November 2010

Stop the Carnage

Remembering Brandon Bitner (1996 – 2010)  
Brandon Bitner was buried on Wednesday, November 10.  The 14-year-old high school freshman from rural Middleburg, Pennsylvania committed suicide by running into the path of a tractor trailer. He left a note that he wanted to draw attention to bullying.  Brandon was a talented musician, who aspired to be a classical violinist. According to the note, he was tired of being called “faggot” and “sissy.”   According to his mother, Tammy Simpson, “He was the most wonderful child anyone could ask for.”

“We need to stop the carnage of gay teen suicides,” said Malcolm Lazin, Executive Director, Equality Forum, a national LGBT civil rights organization headquartered in Philadelphia.

In October 2010, Tyler Clementi, a Rutgers University freshman who committed suicide by jumping off the George Washington Bridge, brought national attention to the epidemic of gay teen suicides that resulted from bullying.  It is estimated that about 500 gay teens each year or 40 gay teens per month take their lives as a result of homophobia.

“In most public, middle and high schools, homophobic taunts are hurled without any disciplinary action,” stated Lazin.  “Sticks and stones will break your bones, but names can really harm you.”

Currently, there are two bills in Congress, the Safe Schools Improvement Act and the Student Non-Discrimination Act.  “Preventing bullying is a non-partisan issue,” said Lazin.  “Congress needs to unanimously pass the Safe Schools Improvement Act and the Student Non-Discrimination Act to make resoundingly clear that our nation demands safe schools for all children.”

Equality Forum produced the documentary film “JIM IN BOLD” (www.jiminbold.com) about the impact of homophobia on gay youth. The film centers on James Wheeler, a 19-year-old talented youth who committed suicide.  Jim was surrounded in his high school’s locker room and urinated on. There was no disciplinary action. The award-winning film has been screened at over 50 film festivals and at the annual meetings of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry and the American Psychiatric Association.


Veterans Day

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John McCrae: In Flanders Fields (1915)


image Canadian poet John McCrae was a medical officer in both the Boer War and World War I. A year into the latter war he published in Punch magazine, on December 8, 1915, the sole work by which he would be remembered. This poem commemorates the deaths of thousands of young men who died in Flanders during the grueling battles there. It created a great sensation, and was used widely as a recruiting tool, inspiring other young men to join the Army. Legend has it that he was inspired by seeing the blood-red poppies blooming in the fields where many friends had died. In 1918 McCrae died at the age of 46, in the way most men died during that war, not from a bullet or bomb, but from disease: pneumonia, in his case.


In Flanders fields the poppies blow
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That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly



Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.



Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.


Veterans Day is an annual United States holiday honoring military veterans. A federal holiday, it is observed on November 11. It is also celebrated as Armistice Day or Remembrance Day in other parts of the world, falling on November 11, the anniversary of the signing of the Armistice that ended World War I. (Major hostilities of World War I were formally ended at the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month of 1918 with the German signing of the Armistice.)

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Especially, please remember all of the gay and lesbian service men and women who have served and too often died in silence about their sexuality, yet served their country with as much élan as any other soldier.  Hopefully soon, GLBT members of the military can serve openly and we can celebrate their service to the fullest extent of their deserved equality.  We need to rid America of DADT.

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Happy Veterans Day!
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The Flapper

“Hip flasks of hooch, jazz, speakeasies, bobbed hair, ‘the lost generation.’ The Twenties are endlessly fascinating. It was the first truly modern decade and, for better or worse, it created the model for society that all the world follows today.” (from Kevin Rayburn, “Two Views of the 1920s.”)

image The Jazz Age and the Flapper was the western world’s response to the horrors of World War I. Today is Veteran’s Day (there will be a special post coming up later about Veteran’s Day).  Veteran’s Day began originally as Armistice Day, a day to celebrate the end of hostilities during the Great War, 1914-1918.

So what, beside the thought of hot soldiers in uniform, does the Veteran’s Day have to do with a gay blog?  First of all, as a result of the war, came the Jazz Age, and with the Jazz Age came the Flapper.  “Flapper” in the 1920s was a term applied to a “new breed” of young Western women who wore short skirts, bobbed their hair, listened to jazz, and flaunted their disdain for what was then considered acceptable behavior. Flappers were seen as brash for wearing excessive makeup, drinking, treating sex in a casual manner, smoking, driving automobiles and otherwise flouting social and sexual norms.

image Flappers did not truly emerge until 1926.  Flapper fashion embraced all things and styles modern.  A fashionable flapper had short sleek hair, a shorter than average shapeless shift dress, a chest as flat as a board, wore make up and applied it in public, smoked with a long cigarette holder, exposed her limbs and epitomized the spirit of a reckless rebel who danced the nights away in the Jazz Age.  The French called the flapper fashion style the ‘garçonne’. ‘Garçonne’ in French, by the way, means boy. More on that later.

When the Great War was over, the survivors went home and the world tried to return to normalcy. Unfortunately, settling down in peacetime proved more difficult than expected. During the war, the boys had fought against both the enemy and death in far away lands; the girls had bought into the patriotic fervor and aggressively entered the workforce. During the war, both the boys and the girls of this generation had broken out of society’s structure; they found it very difficult to return.

They found themselves expected to settle down into the humdrum routine of American life as if nothing had happened, to accept the moral dicta of elders who seemed to them still to be living in a Pollyanna land of rosy ideals which the war had killed for them. They couldn’t do it, and they very disrespectfully said so (Frederick Lewis Allen, Only Yesterday: An Informal History of the Nineteen-Twenties (New York: Harper & Brothers Publishers, 1931).

image Women were just as anxious as the men to avoid returning to society’s rules and roles after the war. In the age of the Gibson Girl, young women did not date, they waited until a proper young man formally paid her interest with suitable intentions (i.e. marriage). However, nearly a whole generation of young men had died in the war, leaving nearly a whole generation of young women without possible suitors. Young women decided that they were not willing to waste away their young lives waiting idly for spinsterhood; they were going to enjoy life. The “Younger Generation” was breaking away from the old set of values.

The term “flapper” first appeared in Great Britain after World War I. It was there used to describe young girls, still somewhat awkward in movement who had not yet entered womanhood. In the June 1922 edition of the Atlantic Monthly, G. Stanley Hall described looking in a dictionary to discover what the evasive term “flapper” meant:

[T]he dictionary set me right by defining the word as a fledgling, yet in the nest, and vainly attempting to fly while its wings have only pinfeathers; and I recognized that the genius of ‘slanguage’ had made the squab the symbol of budding girlhood.

Authors such as F. Scott Fitzgerald and artists such as John Held Jr. first used the term to the U.S., half reflecting and half creating the image and style of the flapper. Fitzgerald described the ideal flapper as “lovely, expensive, and about nineteen.”

The Flappers’ image consisted of drastic – to some, shocking – changes in women’s clothing and hair. Nearly every article of clothing was trimmed down and lightened in order to make movement easier.

It is said that girls “parked” their corsets when they were to go dancing. The new, energetic dances of the Jazz Age, required women to be able to move freely, something the “ironsides” didn’t allow. Replacing the pantaloons and corsets were underwear called “step-ins.”

Abds-100301 The outer clothing of flappers is even still extremely identifiable. This look, called “garconne” (“little boy”), was instigated by Coco Chanel. To look more like a boy, women tightly wound their chest with strips of cloth in order to flatten it. The waists of flapper clothes were dropped to the hipline. She wore stockings – made of rayon (“artificial silk”) starting in 1923 – which the flapper often wore rolled over a garter belt. Flappers worked hard to look more boyish.  The men they were trying to attract during the 1920s were men who had spent years alongside other men in the trenches of the First World War. These men were more comfortable with other men, so women chose to be more like men than the womanly figure of proper society.

Too bad more gay men could not legally be out and proud during the Roaring Twenties, we can look a lot more like hot young men than a bunch of flat-chested women who called themselves Flappers.


Nothing Gold Can Stay

BOTD-103110-003Nothing Gold Can Stay by Robert Frost (1923)

Nature’s first green is gold,
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf’s a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.

I don’t have a lot to write about, but I love the poetry of Robert Frost.  I hope that you enjoy this Autumn themed poem.  I will get a little more inspiration later, until them, enjoy this short bit of poetry. –JB


Moment of Zen: A Great Cup of Coffee

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In Mourning

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The above image is of a statue known as the “Mourning Angel.”  After Tuesday’s election, that is the way I feel.  Only four of the candidates that I voted for won their elections.  Two were the only Republicans I will vote for, and the other two were unopposed.  I find that terribly saddening.

There were several elections around the country that I found to be quite upsetting, but one in particular I found to be truly tragic.  Congressman Gene Taylor of the 4th Congressional District of Mississippi lost his re-election bid, only because he was a Democrat.  Taylor was probably the most conservative Democrat in Congress, though make no bones about it, he was a Democrat.  For 21 years he has worked tirelessly for his district.  During Hurricane Katrina, when his house was destroyed (his district is the coastal district of Mississippi), he was one of the most vocal politicians about the slow reaction time of the government to help the Mississippi Gulf Coast.  He was a tireless advocate of all of his constituents, and I doubt anyone could find anything disparaging to say about him other than that he is a Democrat.  In my opinion, Mississippi has suffered one of its greatest tragedies in its history.


Election Day

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November 2, 2010 is a very special day if you live in the United States of America.  It is election day.  Besides white landowners, the ancestors everyone in this country has had to fight to gain the right to vote.  We all now have the right to vote.  Use that right responsibly.  Understand how important this election is.  So many people I know are going to the polls to vote against the Democrats (I live in a staunchly conservative area of the South).  It makes me almost want to cry.  We have finally after decades of Republican Congressmen finally elected a Democrat to Congress in out District, now his job is in jeopardy.  Even very conservative Blue Dog Democrats (much of which I agree with) are going to be replaced with right-wing conservative nut cases who care nothing about the people and only want to remove Pelosi as Speaker of the House and replace her with someone in the Republican party who is even more decisive.  I honestly don’t think Pelosi is the best person to be leading the House of Representatives because of her divisive politics.  Too much of politics is divisive.  Politicians and special interest groups campaign about what they are against.  I would much rather hear what you are for.  Why can’t we have one positive campaign?

This election is also much more than just about who controls Congress.  Control of Congress can be a two year deal and imagewho knows what can happen in the next two years.  It is unlikely that the Republicans will gain a supermajority in Congress and thus any legislation they push through can be vetoed by the President and cannot be overridden.  Thus we will be at a standstill.  We need more moderates in Congress who can work across party lines and get things done.  We don’t need one party who will ram legislation down our throats, even when America is very vocal against it.

As I said, this election is much more than just about who controls Congress. In many of the states we are electing new governors.  It is these governors who will be given the chance to redraw Congressional districts, most of whom will redraw lines to favor their own party politics.  These governors will not only affect the next four years but also the next ten years.

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I don’t have the answers about politics.  I know there are several of my readers who are much more informed than I am.  I am only a government teacher who tries to teach my students to be responsible citizens.  I am not trying to influence your vote, but I do ask that you vote responsibly.  I hope that you have researched the candidates that you truly know what your candidate is about and what they stand for, not just what they stand against.  Vote smart, vote responsibly, and do what you truly believe is best for your country.