Since I had the day off today, I had planned on blogging this morning when I got up, but when I woke up, I still had a bit of the blahs. We probably all have them at some point, so I decided to take the day for myself. So I remained lazy all day today. Sorry for not posting my usual post, but I hope that you all will forgive me. The good thing is, I am currently feeling better. I think that maybe I have actually caught up on my sleep deficit, and the blahness that I was feeling yesterday is not so blah anymore. I hope that you all have had a wonderful day today, I know that I have had some wonderful sleep.
Monthly Archives: January 2012
Not Up to Snuff
You may have thought my most recent posts have been a little lackluster, and truthfully, the last few days, I have, as my late grandfather would have said, not been feeling up to snuff. It could be the recent weather being warm, then rainy, warmer, then rainy again, and now growing colder. Whatever it is, I have just had no energy the last few days, have had a headache, and just generally feeling blah. I get a four day weekend this weekend, so hopefully, I will recuperate and get back to my normal self. Until then, I thought I would give you the meaning of my granddaddy’s old saying “not up to snuff.”
“Up to snuff,” meaning “satisfactory” or “measuring up to the required standard” turns out to be quite an interesting phrase. First of all, “snuff” all by itself is an intriguing word, or should I say “words,” because there are really two different “snuffs.” The older “snuff,” of unknown origin and dating back to the 14th century, meant the burnt part of a candle wick. As a verb, this “snuff” meant “to extinguish a candle” and it is from this sense that we get our modern metaphor of “snuffing” someone’s hopes (or, in slang, actually expunging the person).
The other kind of “snuff,” meaning powdered tobacco inhaled through the nostrils, came along a bit later, in the 1680’s. The root of this “snuff” was probably the verb “to snuff,” meaning to draw up into the nose (think back to your last “snuffling” head cold), and it apparently began as an abbreviation of the Dutch word “snuiftabak,” or snuffing tobacco. “Taking snuff” was a popular habit in Europe for hundreds of years, so its not surprising that it showed up in a metaphor for “satisfactory” or “usual.” What remains a little unclear about “up to snuff” is whether the phrase refers to a level of acceptable quality of snuff itself, or to the wide-awake and perky attitude of someone who has just taken snuff.
The phrase, “up to snuff,” likely dates from Britain where it is recorded in 1811 with the meaning “knowing; not easily deceived”. In America in 1831 its meaning had changed to “up to standard”. The British meaning arose from the notion of being old or experienced enough to take snuff, and the American form was an expansion of that meaning.
Same-Sex Marriage
Research has shown that marriage provides substantial psychological and physical health benefits due to the moral, economic and social support extended to married couples. Conversely, recent empirical evidence has illustrated the harmful psychological effect of policies restricting marriage rights for same-sex couples. Additionally, children raised by same-sex couples have been shown to be on par with the children of opposite-sex couples in their psychological adjustment, cognitive abilities and social functioning.
Yea Alabama
Yea Alabama
Yea, Alabama! Drown ’em Tide!
Every ‘Bama man’s behind you,
Hit your stride.
Go teach the Bulldogs to behave,
Send the Yellow Jackets to a watery grave.
And if a man starts to weaken,
That’s a shame!
For Bama’s pluck and grit have
Writ her name in Crimson flame.
Fight on, fight on, fight on men!
Remember the Rose Bowl, we’ll win then.
Go, roll to victory,
Hit your stride,
You’re Dixie’s football pride,
Crimson Tide, Roll Tide, Roll Tide!!
Technically, this is a fight song, not a poem, but I am still happy that Alabama won the BCS National Championship.
Roll Tide Roll!!!
Changing the Game for LGBT Students in School
I came across the article and thought that it might interest my fellow GLBT educators out there. I would love to hear what you have to say about it. I know that with my school, we have a large amount of the faculty that do not support GLBT students, what’s worse our principal is one of them. I hope that one day that will change and all students will be accepted, no matter how they identify themselves.
By Chris MurrayChris Murray is a social studies teacher and baseball coach at Walter Johnson High School in Bethesda, Md.
As a high school teacher and coach in Bethesda, Md., I have found our school to be a generally safe and wonderful place for our 2,500 students and faculty. However, like any community of this many people, there is a wide range of views and opinions in terms of acceptance for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) issues. But three specific and upsetting instances at school this year caused me to take action.
In September I had an idea for every teacher to display an equal sign in their classroom in order to show faculty support for all of our students. When I proposed this idea to the sponsor of our high school’s Gay-Straight Alliance (GSA), she questioned how many teachers would actually put them up. She added that the student club had tried this activity before and was met with resistance.
I was bewildered. It had never crossed my mind that a teacher would not be accepting of a student because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Why would an educator bring their personal beliefs into the classroom when we’re supposed to support the needs of each student?Later, in December, I had the opportunity to meet two representatives from the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN)at a social studies conference in Washington, D.C. During our conversation I mentioned that it seemed as if things had been getting better for LGBT people in the country. The look that I received was one of absolute astonishment, as if I were from another planet.
And really, I was. As a straight, white, upper-middle-class male, I have not had to face or endure any true injustice because of the personal characteristics that make me who I am. It was after listening to these representatives that I realized that the D.C. metropolitan area has come a long way but is still far from perfect in the level of acceptance of LGBT issues compared with the rest of the country and world.
But the latest instance was an eye opener and what pushed me to do something for LGBT students. It did not come from a fellow teacher, or a GLSEN representative, but from a member of our student body. I will call her “Emily.” I have known Emily as a student for a while, but I never had the chance to sit down and listen to her story. I was astounded by what she had to say.
Thanks to Emily’s courage to address the entire staff and administration of our school, she relayed to us with vivid detail what it means to be a gay student in high school. Emily shared the hurtful words and acts that often sprout up, making sure that we all understood that pretending away or ignoring the anti-gay jokes and comments heard in school was not only unacceptable but sending a negative message to all students. Emily made the point that our lack of intervention was telling students that it is not OK to be gay and that it is acceptable for a student to be hateful toward another student who is.
At that moment I knew I had to do more for students like Emily. I realized being a silent bystander was not only hurting people but in essence giving the green light to allow bullying and hatred to continue in my school. I thought a lot after hearing this 17-year-old girl pour her heart out to people in both educational and administrative roles. I couldn’t help but ask myself if this really was the kind of world that I wanted my own son to grow up in.
What troubled me even more was that some of my colleagues, mentors like me, didn’t applaud Emily for her courage in coming forward. They didn’t stand for the ovation at the end of her story and, more strikingly, didn’t even acknowledge her speaking. They instead focused on their smartphones.
I am a teacher, a husband, a father, a role model, and a mentor. I am also a coach. I know that my actions in each of these roles influence and affect hundreds of people. That is why I decided to take action and become an ally for students like Emily who are victims of bullying and harassment.
At our high school I am now encouraging all of my school’s teams and coaches to take the Team Respect Challenge, a part of Changing the Game: The GLSEN Sports Project. As a coach, I understand that this pledge recognizes the differences that strengthen both our school and community. Our teams have now become the role models by letting other students know that they will not stand by and allow their peers to be bullied or harassed because of their sexual orientation or gender identity, or, more importantly, because a student is different.
I want to thank all my students and players who have begun to accept people’s differences as part of what makes our school, community, and the world a better place. It takes a lot of courage to stand up for something that may be unpopular or not cool. But we will give a voice to our LGBT peers so that students like Emily won’t have to come forward and ask for something that every student should be offered without hesitation: a safe and affirming school in which to grow and discover their potential.
Moment of Zen: What I Want
This week, I have been teaching about childhood development in my high school psychology class. I had nearly given up on the idea I having children, but after using kids as show and tell this week (so that my students could actually see the differnt stages of developement) I would really love to have a child of my own someday.
Political Questions
In my last two posts, I have discussed the Republican presidential candidates. The comments have me wondering, what should I be looking for in a candidate? Several people have either commented that one issue was more important than the other, or on the other side of the coin, responders have stated that we should look at a broader picture. I never look at just one thing when choosing a candidate. There are, however, certain issues that rank higher in my choice. How a candidate treats GLBT issues is usually at the top of my list. I also want to know what that candidate intends to do if/when he is elected. The economy is no doubt an important issue, but is not really an issue that I look at for a presidential candidate. You might be wondering why I say that, and the answer for me is quite simple. As a historian, I look at historical trends, and history shows us that a president has no immediate impact on the economy. Usually it takes 5-10 years for a presidential decision to actually affect the economy as a whole. Even when Franklin D. Roosevelt had nearly carte blanche to do what he deemed necessary during the Great Depression, his policies never truly affected the nation’s economy. Only the Second World War, and America’s decision to enter that war ended the Great Depression. That is merely one example. It is in my opinion that the policies of Ronald Reagan during the 1980s eventually caused the economic downturn that was the cause for the end of George H.W. Bush’s presidency. Subsequently, it was the policies of Bill Clinton along with George W. Bush’s economic policies coupled with their foreign policy, i.e. numerous wars and conflicts without the help of a total war economy, that has caused much of the current crisis to be extended.
Now quite frankly, this is my own brainstorming and truly what I believe; however, it points to my reasons for looking at more social issues as opposed to economic issues that causes me to question the current political landscape of Republican candidates. Quite frankly, and excuse my bluntness, but we seem to be “up shit creek without a paddle” and, needless to say, our choices for presidential candidates stink to high heaven. There is so much rhetoric and sound-bite pandering, until we look as if we have a group of the ridiculous running against the even more ridiculous. So my questions are:
- What are we to do?
- What issues should we be looking at?
- If politics really is about the lesser of two evils, who is the least evil?
- Can we afford to have a Republican who is going to do all he can to roll back the major steps we have made in GLBT rights?
- What are your opinions on the issues?
- What are you looking for in a candidate?
- Will you merely settle for the incumbent Democrat, Obama?
- Why can’t we find a third alternative?
- Shouldn’t there be some moderates out there, since both the Democrats and Republicans are taking things to the extremes on the Left and Right?
Santorum’s Homophobia Problem
I read this article last night, and found it an appropriate follow-up to my post yesterday. So I hope that you find it as interesting as I did. Also, thanks for you comments yesterday. While I agree that we should not focus on only one issue, this is an GLBT blog and so I wanted to focus on this issue. Also, no matter what happens with the economy or any other issues, I am still a gay man who will worry about GLBT issues. And yes, Obama has done more for our community than any other president in history, I have to agree with the comment that Obama is not qualified to be president of anything. Furthermore, I do not feel that the old Republican ways will get us out of this current financial crisis. There must be a solution out there, but is there anyone running who can find that solution?
Santorum’s Homophobia Problem
by Jay Michaelson
Author of God vs. Gay? The Religious Case for Equality
LGBT people awoke with a sense of dread to the news of Rick Santorum’s near-tie with Mitt Romney in the Iowa caucuses. Santorum is not just the butt (pun intended) of a deservingly dirty joke; he has long been ahead of the curve when it comes to bashing gay people for political gain. He is the poster child for political homophobia.
And yet, this near-win is different, because America is different. Santorum represents not the resurgence of gay-baiting, but its last, self-defeating gasp.
Only a few years ago, homophobia was a great uniter. Short on campaign cash? Need to fire up the base? Why, flash a few images of the latest pride parade, compare same-sex marriage to bestiality, and the checks and self-rightous blog posts would flow like milk and honey. And while religiously-soaked gay-bashing wasn’t the rhetoric of choice for neo-conservatives and fiscal conservatives, they went along with it, building a strong coalition between corporate capitalists and Christian conservatives.
Indeed, it has been remarked that this was Reaganism’s great innovation: using social issues to convince working class people to vote against their economic interests. At first, it was the “Southern strategy,” making use of coded racism. Later, it grew into gay-baiting, making use of overt homophobia. For at least twenty years, it was the winning formula for the Republican party. Enrich the rich by enraging the working poor.
Only now, things are different. Last May, a Gallup poll found a majority of Americans supported legalizing same-sex marriage. Last September, a large majority supported the end of the military’s “Don’t Ask/Don’t Tell” policy. And over the last year, we’ve seen a dramatic increase of LGBT (including T) people in the media, in politics, and in our communities.
As a result of these dramatic changes, Santorum’s homophobia is more a liability than an asset. Gay people may be horrified at his near-win in Iowa, but we needn’t be. His bigotry still plays to his base — but it’s only the base, only the extremists, who still soak it up.
Of course, public opinion could always turn against gay people. But I don’t think that’s likely, because it changed, over time, due to a very resilient and powerful force: truth. Straight folks have seen, in their own personal experience, that gay people are no more or less ethical than they are. There are lusty, libertine gays, and quiet, conservative ones. Gay people are atheist and religious, of all ethnic backgrounds, young and old, wild and mild. The stereotypes that all gay people are a certain way (lewd, anti-family, demonic, whatever) are simply not true, and anyone who bothers to — no, allows themselves to — get to know their gay neighbors realizes this.
And they’ve seen, too, that sexual orientation is a trait, not (as it has been variously labeled) a sin, pathology, “lifestyle choice,” neurosis, or dysfunction. Sexuality is just part of who we are — a good part.
That kind of truth isn’t subject to the whims of political opinion. Once you see that stereotypes are lies, you don’t go back to them later, especially when — as poll after poll has shown us — that knowledge comes first-hand. The lesbian couple in church, or the gay man raising a child, is far more potent an opinion-shifter than the latest fundraising santorum from the likes of Rick Santorum.
And by the way, this is even true within Santorum’s base itself. In evangelical communities across the country, there are moderate voices questioning the way in which gay people have been singled out by the so-called Christian Right. While most evangelicals remain committed to a broad reading of Scripture regarding homosexuality, increasing numbers are voicing misgivings about whether it’s really Christian to stigmatize gay people. Who Would Jesus Hate, after all?
Given the money and the races ahead in the Republican primary, there’s no way Rick Santorum will be the party’s nominee. Mitt Romney’s PACs will destroy him just as they destroyed Newt Gingrich in Iowa, burying him under an avalanche of negative ads. But as depressing as Santorum’s rise may seem to LGBT folks, this time really is different. We are not about to be victims again. On the contrary, if the polling data is accurate, the biggest victim of Santorum’s homophobia will be Santorum himself.
Jay Michaelson is a writer, scholar and activist whose work addresses the intersections of religion, sexuality, spirituality and law. His newest book is “God vs. Gay?: The Religious Case for Equality (Queer Action/Queer Ideas)
,” available October 2011 from Beacon Press.
Jay is is the author of three other books and more than 200 articles, essays, and works of fiction. He is the Associate Editor of Religion Dispatches, a Contributing Editor to the Forward newspaper, and Founding Editor of Zeek magazine. His work on behalf of sexual minorities in religious communities has been featured in the New York Times, CNN and NPR, as well as several anthologies.
Jay has held teaching positions at Boston University Law School, City College of New York and Yale University. He holds a J.D. from Yale Law School, an M.A. in Religious Studies from Hebrew University, an M.F.A. in writing from Sarah Lawrence College, and a B.A. magna cum laude from Columbia, and is completing his Ph.D. at Hebrew University of Jerusalem. He has been a scholar-in-residence at dozens of universities, synagogues and other institutions.
In 2009, Jay was included on the “Forward 50″ list of “the men and women who are leading the American Jewish community into the 21st century,” and in June, 2010, he won the New York Society for Professional Journalists “Deadline Club” award for opinion writing.
While I do not completely agree with all that Michaelson says in this article, I do think he makes some valid points. I think that he dismisses Santorum’s homophobia too quickly as an issue that will work against him. There are still many people who will vote for him just for his homophobic stance (sadly, my mother is one of them). Some people will take his Christian conservatism, especially with Bachmann out of the race, as a reason to vote for him. The other candidates who will attempt to garner the same vote are Gingrich and Perry, though I do not feel that Perry can sustain a campaign and Gingrich has too many marital skeletons in his closet to be a viable candidate for the Christian right. So do you think that Santorum can actually give Romney a run for his money, or is it really just new media hype in order to have something to talk about in an otherwise boring Republican Primary season?
SOURCE: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jay-michaelson/rick-santorum-homophobia_b_1182857.html


















