March 2, 2012

Resolution

By Joe

Though I have been left high and dry when dealing with the parents over the cheating situation, and I have been told that I am the only teacher having discipline problems (I had conversations with several teachers, and they assured me that I was not), I did get some good news today.  I was told today that it has been confirmed that our principal is on his way out.  He has accepted a job elsewhere and will not be there much longer.  I do not know how long, but I hope that he will not finish the school year.  One of my closest friends at school told me that even though I feel that I am at my rope’s end, that I just need to hang in there.

I also had a conversation with a board member last night.  His advice “Give ’em hell, and stand your ground.  He would always support me.”  He also gave me some advice that was very uncharacteristic of him. Though he is a religious man, he is not a Bible thumper.  He reminded me of something important to keep in mind.

These things have I spoken unto you, that in me ye may have peace. In the world ye have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.

John 16:33 (ASV)

Jesus knew that adversity is on the outside of a person, an individual’s attitude determines whether one chooses to become bitter or better from it.  I choose to become better for the experience.  I appreciate all of the advice and support that everyone has given me through this difficult week.

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About Joe

I began my life in the South and for five years lived as a closeted teacher, but am now making a new life for myself as an oral historian in New England. I think my life will work out the way it was always meant to be. That doesn't mean there won't be ups and downs; that's all part of life. It means I just have to be patient. I feel like October 7, 2015 is my new birthday. It's a beginning filled with great hope. It's a second chance to live my life…not anyone else's. My profile picture is "David and Me," 2001 painting by artist Steve Walker. It happens to be one of my favorite modern gay art pieces. View all posts by Joe

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6 responses to “Resolution”

• silvereagle
  March 2nd, 2012 at 9:35 am

  Great news!! Glad things are working out for you….Knew it would!!

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• JJ Roa Rodriguez
  March 2nd, 2012 at 11:50 am

  Thanks for sharing this… Give me hope in my situation too. Different situation but it is nice to hear good stories…JJRod'z

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• Anonymous
  March 2nd, 2012 at 12:40 pm

  Good luck–and I think that you already have great good luck in that so many fair-minded and influential folks are on your side.

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• Anonymous
  March 2nd, 2012 at 12:41 pm

  Good luck–and I think that you already have great good luck in that so many fair-minded and influential folks are on your side.

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• fan of casey
  March 2nd, 2012 at 9:03 pm

  Joe: That's a relief. It's good to know that doing the right things has been vindicated by a person who can influence the climate you are working in.

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• Uncutplus
  March 2nd, 2012 at 10:33 pm

  I am very glad that you are getting support from the board and parents. I admire you for standing your ground. As a result, both your co-workers (faculty) and students will in time appreciate your stance and acknowledge the example you have set.

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