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Monthly Archives: October 2012
National Coming Out Day
Banned LGBT Books (Part I)
Last week was Banned Books Week, which was first observed in 1982 “in response to a sudden surge in the number of challenges to books in schools, bookstores and libraries,” notes BannedBooksWeek.org.
Roy and Silo were “a little bit different” from the other male penguins: instead of noticing females, they noticed each other. Thus penguin chick Tango, hatched from a fertilized egg given to the pining, bewildered pair, came to be “the only penguin in the Central Park Zoo with two daddies.” As told by Richardson and Parnell (a psychiatrist and playwright), this true story remains firmly within the bounds of the zoo’s polar environment.
The Perks of Being a Wallflower
Since its publication, stephen chbosky’s haunting debut novel has received critical acclaim, provoked discussion and debate, grown into a cult phenomenon with over a million copies in print, and inspired a major motion picture. The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a story about what it’s like to travel that strange course through the uncharted territory of high school. The world of first dates, family dramas, and new friends. Of sex, drugs, and the rocky horror picture show. Of those wild and poignant roller-coaster days known as growing up.
Running with Scissors: A Memoir
Running with Scissors is the true story of a boy whose mother (a poet with delusions of Anne Sexton) gave him away to be raised by her unorthodox psychiatrist who bore a striking resemblance to Santa Claus. So at the age of twelve, Burroughs found himself amidst Victorian squalor living with the doctor’s bizarre family, and befriending a pedophile who resided in the backyard shed. The story of an outlaw childhood where rules were unheard of, and the Christmas tree stayed up all year round, where Valium was consumed like candy, and if things got dull an electroshock- therapy machine could provide entertainment. The funny, harrowing and bestselling account of an ordinary boy’s survival under the most extraordinary circumstances.
Daddy’s Roommate (Alyson Wonderland)
This story’s narrator begins with his parent’s divorce and continues with the arrival of “someone new at Daddy’s house.” The new arrival is male. This new concept is explained to the child as “just one more kind of love.” The text is suitably straightforward, and the format–single lines of copy beneath full-page illustrations–easily accessible to the intended audience.
Heather Has Two Mommies: 10th Anniversary Edition
Originally self-published in 1989, Heather Has Two Mommies became the first title in Alyson’s newly formed Alyson Wonderland imprint in 1990. The simple and straightforward story of a little girl named Heather and her two lesbian mothers was created by Newman and illustrator Diana Souza because children’s books that reflected a nontraditional family did not exist, but a firestorm of controversy soon ensued. Attacked by the religious right, lambasted by Jesse Helms from the floor of the U.S Senate, and stolen from library shelves, it was an uphill battle for Heather. Thanks to the overwhelming support of booksellers, librarians, parents, and children, however, Heather Has Two Mommies has sold over 35,000 copies, launched a minor industry in providing books for the children of gay and lesbian parents and, as attested to by a recent New Yorker cartoon, become part of the cultural lexicon.
Set in the elegant Edwardian world of Cambridge undergraduate life, this story by a master novelist introduces us to Maurice Hall when he is fourteen. We follow him through public school and Cambridge, and on into his father’s firm, Hill and Hall, Stock Brokers. In a highly structured society, Maurice is a conventional young man in almost every way, “stepping into the niche that England had prepared for him”: except that his is homosexual. Written during 1913 and 1914, immediately after Howards End, and not published until 1971, Maurice was ahead of its time in its theme and in its affirmation that love between men can be happy. “Happiness,” Forster wrote, “is its keynote. In Maurice I tried to create a character who was completely unlike myself or what I supposed myself to be: someone handsome, healthy, bodily attractive, mentally torpid, not a bad businessman and rather a snob. Into this mixture I dropped an ingredient that puzzles him, wakes him up, torments him and finally saves him.”
Walt Whitman’s Leaves of Grass
Leaves of Grass (1855) is a poetry collection by the American poet Walt Whitman. Among the poems in the collection are “Song of Myself,” “I Sing the Body Electric,” and in later editions, Whitman’s elegy to the assassinated President Abraham Lincoln, “When Lilacs Last in the Dooryard Bloom’d.” Whitman spent his entire life writing Leaves of Grass, revising it in several editions until his death. Leaves of Grass has its genesis in an essay called The Poet by Ralph Waldo Emerson, published in 1845, which expressed the need for the United States to have its own new and unique poet to write about the new country’s virtues and vices. Whitman, reading the essay, consciously set out to answer Emerson’s call as he began work on the first edition of Leaves of Grass. Whitman, however, downplayed Emerson’s influence, stating, “I was simmering, simmering, simmering; Emerson brought me to a boil”.
This groundbreaking book, first published in 1982, is the story of two teenage girls whose friendship blossoms into love and who, despite pressures from family and school that threaten their relationship, promise to be true to each other and their feelings. Of the author and the book, the Margaret A. Edwards Award committee said, “Nancy Garden has the distinction of being the first author for young adults to create a lesbian love story with a positive ending. Using a fluid, readable style, Garden opens a window through which readers can find courage to be true to themselves.” The 25th Anniversary Edition features a full-length interview with the author by Kathleen T. Horning, Director of the Cooperative Children’s Book Center. Ms. Garden answers such revealing questions as how she knew she was gay, why she wrote the book, censorship, and the book’s impact on readers – then and now.
Spirits of the Dead by Edgar Allan Poe
The picture above the poem is I guess a sexy Headless Horseman. So what will be your costume this Halloween?
The Sacred Band
The Sacred Band
From Plutarch’s Life of Pelopidas, (Dryden, trans.):
The Sacred Band and their Tutelary Deity: Rationale and Organization of the Homosexual Theban Sacred Band of ‘divine friends.’
From Plutarch:
Composition:
Training:
The Generals of the Sacred Band:
The Sacred Band and Pelopidas: Making Thebes Great
Annihilation:
Tribute and Mystery
Notes
- Plutarch, “Pelopidas” 18, trans. Dryden.
- Plato, “Symposium”, trans. Jowett.
- Plutarch, “Pelopidas” 18, trans. Dryden.
- Plutarch, “Pelopidas” 18.
- Plutarch, “Pelopidas” 18: “Up to the battle of Chaeronea it is said to have continued invincible”.
- James G. DeVoto, “The Theban Sacred Band,” in The Ancient World, Vol. XXIII, No.2 (1992)
- Official notice at Lion Monument at Chaeronea.
- James G DeVoto, “The Theban Sacred Band,” The Ancient World, XXIII.2 (1992)
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Ruth’s Loyalty
Ruth 1:16-17 (KJV)
16 And Ruth said, Intreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God:
17 Where thou diest, will I die, and there will I be buried: theLord do so to me, and more also, if ought but death part thee and me.
So what about Ruth?
The Reasons Behind the Story
SourcesThe New Oxford Annotated Bible with Apocrypha, New Revised Standard Version (Oxford University Press, 1994).The Jewish Study Bible, TANAKH Translation (Oxford University Press, 2004).Isaac Asimov’s Guide to the Bible, The Old and New Testaments (Avenel Books, 1981).
Luca Pacioli: The Father of Accounting
The story of the birth of accounting begins with numbers. In the 1400s, much of Europe was still using Roman numerals, and finding it really hard to easily add or subtract. (Try adding MCVI to XCIV.)But fortunately, Arabic numerals (1, 2, 3, 4, etc.) started catching on, and with those numbers, merchants in Venice developed a revolutionary system we now call “double-entry” bookkeeping. This is how it works:Every transaction gets entered twice in financial records. If one day you sold three gold coins’ worth of pepper, you would write that the amount of cash you had went up by three gold coins. You would also write in that the amount of pepper you had went down by three gold coins’ worth.
Before double-entry, people just kept diaries and counted their money at the end of the day. This innovation allowed merchants to see every aspect of their business in neat little rows.Jane Gleeson-White wrote the new book Double Entry: How the Merchants of Venice Created Modern Finance.She explains how significant this new accounting was:
“You could itemize the profits in each account, so you knew which products you were doing well in and which you weren’t. Then you could start to think about how you would change your business activities. It was just a whole revolution in the way of thinking about business and trade.”
Luca Pacioli was a monk, magician and lover of numbers. He discovered this special bookkeeping in Venice and was intrigued by it. In 1494, he wrote a huge math encyclopedia and included an instructional section on double-entry bookkeeping.Thanks to the newly invented printing press, his book was mass produced and became a big hit. One of the first readers was Leonardo da Vinci, who at the time was painting The Last Supper. Pacioli’s encyclopedia had a section on the mathematics of perspective painting which fascinated da Vinci.“They were hanging out together….I think they were probably lovers. They certainly spent a lot of time together, and definitely Luca Pacioli was there in the church when Leonardo da Vinci was there in the actual church when Leonardo da Vinci was painting The Last Supper,” said Gleeson-White.What Pacioli is known for today, though, is that tiny section of the book about accounting. Today, every country and every business uses double-entry bookkeeping.
Double Entry: How the Merchants of Venice Created Modern Finance
October is Anti-Bullying Month
A website that links to information on cyberbullying including articles, reports, books, and professional resources from other organizations; offers consulting services.
- Educator’s Guide to Cyberbullying and Cyberthreats (2007) (PDF)
Offers tips on how to teach proper Internet use to prevent cyberbullying and cyberthreats. Provides descriptions of various types of cyberbullying, teaching scenarios, and detailed information on related online risky behavior. - Mobilizing Educators, Parents, Students, and Others to Combat Online Social Aggression
Provides a description of cyberbullying and cyberthreats, along with advice on responses and prevention techniques. Appendices offer information targeted to parents, educators (e.g., policies and legislation), and students. Includes a video presentation on cyberbullying, cyberthreats, and sexting, as well as handouts for K–12 youth on how to be cybersafe.
- Steps to Respect: A Bullying Prevention Program
A research-based program that “teaches elementary students to recognize, refuse, and report bullying, be assertive, and build friendships.”
A national education organization whose mission is centered on creating safe spaces in schools for K–12 students. They seek to “develop school climates where difference is valued for the positive contribution it makes in creating a more vibrant and diverse community.” The website and resources are focused on the acceptance of all people regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity/expression, or occupation. Includes information on their research and policymaking, plus tools and tips.
- Anti-Bullying Resources
“Through research-based interventions, GLSEN provides resources and support for schools to implement effective and age-appropriate anti-bullying programs to improve school climate for all students. While many schools show a willingness to address bullying generally, effective efforts must address the pervasive issue of anti-LGBT bullying as a crucial element of the problem. These programs and resources aim to help all members of the school community address bullying in inclusive and effective ways.”
- Olweus Bullying Prevention Program
A schoolwide program (for elementary, middle, and junior high schools) designed to reduce and prevent bullying problems, and to improve peer relations among schoolchildren. Offers training for school staff and for National Olweus trainers.
A nonprofit foundation whose online safety education programs are available throughout the U.S. and in Department of Defense schools around the world.
- Educators
Online, classroom, and community interactive curriculums on Internet safety; includes certification program.
- Bully Proof Your School (2008) (PDF)
A program “for handling bully/victim problems through the creation of a ‘caring majority’ of students who take the lead in establishing and maintaining a safe and caring school community.” Improves school climate, addresses bystander and bullying behavior, teaches protective skills, and much more. Workshops are targeted to early childhood, elementary, middle, and high school personnel. - Bullying and Teasing of Youth with Disabilities: Creating Positive School Environments for Effective Inclusion (PDF)
Information for educators about bullying and teasing within schools, especially harassment targeted toward children with disabilities.
This website provides information on cyberspace safety and encourages children, parents and teachers to talk with one another about how to stay safe online. Includes information covering various areas including cyberbullying, financial scams, and sexual victimization.
- Stop Bullying Now!
A website for parents, children, and educators providing strategies to reduce bullying in schools. Includes information about why children bully, what to do if you are being bullied, and what parents can do if their child is being bullied. Features “Cool Stuff,” targeted toward children including webisodes, character profiles, and games. Also offers Spanish content materials for parents, survey and training opportunities, links to training videos and workshops, consultation (via phone and e-mail), and many other resources.
- School-Based Programs to Reduce Bullying and Victimization (2009) (PDF)
A research report presents presenting a systematic review and meta-analysis of the effectiveness of programs designed to reduce school bullying perpetration and victimization.
Samuel Butler
There can be little doubt as to the intensity of Butler’s same-sex desire, and the intensity with which he deployed the bachelor mode to regulate it. Victorian bachelorhood enabled a middle-class man who rejected matrimony to remain distinctly middle-class . . . For Butler, as for Pater and James, the aim of bachelordom was to contain the homoerotic within the respectable. . . . With Pauli, and with Jones and Faesch, Butler most likely kept within the homosocial boundaries of his time. There is no evidence of genital contact with other men, although the temptations of overstepping the line strained his close male relationships.


















