My original plan today was to be disembarking from a cruise ship at Isla Roatán in Honduras. However, since my cruise was cancelled due to my aunt’s death, I will be serving as a pallbearer at her funeral instead of taking a historical tour of Roatán and getting in some beach time.
For those of you who may not know, a pallbearer is one of several funeral participants who helps carry the casket of a deceased person from a religious or memorial service or viewing either directly to a cemetery or mausoleum, or to and from the hearse which carries the coffin.
A pall is the heavy cloth that is draped over a coffin. The term “pallbearer” is used to signify someone who bears the coffin which the pall covers.
In western cultures, the pallbearers are usually male family members, close friends, or colleagues of the deceased. A pall-bearer in the USA will carry a casket by the handles, and at around waist height. In the United Kingdom, the casket is carried on the shoulders, and the handles are for the most part decorative. All lifting should be done from underneath the casket.
I realize that this is a somewhat somber post, and it’s quite a somber time for me and my family. I just did not feel like righting a cheerful post today, so I hope you will forgive me.
P.S. HRH seems to be enjoying being home. I’m sure after being kept in a kennel for a week, she is happy to be able to roam around some, though she’s mostly resting. Quite honestly, sleeping is what cats do most of the time anyway.










January 15th, 2014 at 7:36 am
Words fail me … for once. Wow. I’m so very sorry.
January 15th, 2014 at 9:00 am
Thank you
January 15th, 2014 at 9:27 am
😦
January 15th, 2014 at 7:39 am
You are so selfless to set aside a great vacation to be there for your family. Interesting information about pall bearing. Our thoughts are with your family, xo LMA
January 15th, 2014 at 9:03 am
Thank you, but it was more about having to deal with the wrath of my mama if I had gone on my vacation. She would have never forgiven me, but also, she needed me and so did my grandmother. I really had no choice.