
Monthly Archives: December 2024
Work, Work, Work

How is it possible that it is only Wednesday? Monday dragged on, and while Tuesday went by fairly quickly, I was busy all day. This week has felt like it is dragging very slowly, like Friday is an eternity away. Yesterday did not feel like a Tuesday at all, and now I have to face Wednesday. I was hunched over my computer all day at work yesterday (obviously with clothes on and not like the model above) preparing for a class, and though I got up a few times for this or that, I felt absolutely exhausted by the time I got home. It was one of those tirednesses that take over your whole body. By the time I got inside my apartment, my body was screaming to get out of my work clothes and lay down and not ever move again. Obviously, I did move again because I eventually had to heat up my dinner. It wasn’t really any better last night when I went to bed or, for that matter, this morning when I woke up. I have a busy day of stuff today as well. Maybe today will fly by quickly. Then, I’ll do it all again tomorrow.
If only I were independently wealthy, then I could be on a warm beach somewhere, or if I had to be somewhere cold, a nice chalet in the Alps. Maybe I’d be in an apartment in Florence overlooking a piazza or in Venice looking out the window overlooking the Grand Canal. Whatever it would be, I’d be enjoying a good book and putting all my worries aside, at least for a little while. I guy can dream, can’t he?
Mistletoe

Mistletoe
By Walter de la Mare
Sitting under the mistletoe
(Pale-green, fairy mistletoe),
One last candle burning low,
All the sleepy dancers gone,
Just one candle burning on,
Shadows lurking everywhere:
Some one came, and kissed me there.
Tired I was; my head would go
Nodding under the mistletoe
(Pale-green, fairy mistletoe),
No footsteps came, no voice, but only,
Just as I sat there, sleepy, lonely,
Stooped in the still and shadowy air
Lips unseen—and kissed me there.
About This Poem
Walter de la Mare’s poem “Mistletoe” is a beautifully atmospheric work that combines themes of nature, mystery, and enchantment. “Mistletoe” evokes a sense of quiet wonder as it explores the magical, dreamlike quality of a wintry night. The poem intertwines elements of the natural world, the spiritual, and the fantastical. The central theme revolves around transformation and the mystical interplay between the visible and invisible worlds.
De la Mare excels in creating vivid and haunting imagery. The titular mistletoe, often associated with folklore, magic, and romance, becomes a symbol of mystery and enchantment. The poem’s setting—likely a winter night—heightens its mystical atmosphere. De la Mare uses sensory details to envelop the reader in a dreamlike world, where reality and imagination blur. For example, the quietness and coldness of the environment emphasize solitude and stillness, drawing the reader into a reflective, almost meditative state.
While the poem seems simple on the surface, it carries a profound exploration of the human response to nature’s beauty and the unknown. The mistletoe, often suspended in air and shadow, can be seen as a metaphor for fleeting moments of magic or insight that hover just beyond our grasp. In essence, Mistletoe invites readers to reflect on the wonder of life and the thin veil between the mundane and the magical, suggesting that there’s always more to the world than what meets the eye.
About the Poet
Walter de la Mare (1873–1956) was a renowned English poet, short story writer, and novelist, best known for his imaginative and often haunting works that explore themes of childhood, dreams, mystery, and the supernatural. His lyrical style and evocative imagery have made him one of the most distinctive voices in 20th-century English literature.
He was born on April 25, 1873, in Charlton, Kent, England. He was the son of a civil servant and spent his early years surrounded by books, fostering a love for literature and storytelling. Before becoming a full-time writer, de la Mare worked as a clerk at the Anglo-American Oil Company, a job he held for nearly two decades. During this time, he wrote prolifically, often under the pseudonym “Walter Ramal.”
His first major collection, Songs of Childhood (1902), brought him recognition, but he gained wider fame with The Listeners (1912), which contains his iconic poem of the same name. De la Mare’s literary career spanned over five decades, during which he wrote numerous poems, novels, short stories, and children’s books. He was awarded the Order of Merit in 1953 and passed away on June 22, 1956, at the age of 83.
De la Mare often explored the imaginative and perceptive world of children, celebrating their sense of wonder and connection to the mysterious. Many of his works are infused with an eerie, dreamlike quality, blending the real and the fantastical. His poems frequently celebrate the beauty and mystery of the natural world, often imbuing it with spiritual or mystical significance. Known for his musicality, de la Mare’s work is characterized by its rhythm, alliteration, and vivid imagery.
Walter de la Mare’s works continue to be appreciated for their ability to capture the magic and mystery of human experience. His poetry and stories often transcend age, appealing to both adults and children alike. His unique voice, blending simplicity with profound insight, secures his place as one of the most enduring writers in English literature.
Mondays Suck

No doubt about it, Mondays suck! Y’all have heard me say this before, but I feel this way every Monday that I have to go to work. It’s not like I don’t wake up on the weekends at the same time as I do on weekdays. Isabella doesn’t recognize whether it is a weekend or weekday; she wants to be fed. I went to bed early last night. I fell asleep while reading sometime between 7:00 pm and 7:30 pm, and when I woke up, I decided that I just needed to go back to sleep. I tried to stay up a little while longer, but I was asleep again by 9:00 pm. I mention this for two reasons: 1) when I go to bed early, it messes up Isabella’s internal clock, and she tries to wake me up earlier than usual, and 2) I woke up not feeling like I had slept longer than usual. I could have probably ignored Isabella a bit longer, but I could not ignore my bladder.
The good news is that I don’t really have to deal with people today, unless we get visitors to the museum who actually need me for something. My coworkers will not be at work today because one coworker, who is always off on Mondays, had other commitments that could not bear change and the other had something urgent come up that called her away from the office. I don’t mind being there by myself. There will be people in the library but they rarely bother me. It’s our last week with students on campus, so everyone will be busy with final exams making it even quieter. They will be back after winter break. It should be a peaceful day. I can get work done that interruptions would have been an annoyance, and I can be more relaxed, meaning I can read a book. I actually have two books that are part of work that I need to read and a few journal articles to read that I will probably assign to my class next semester, so it might not be reading for pleasure like I’d prefer, but we’ll see how that goes.
I hope everyone has a wonderful week!
Symbols of Unity, Not Division

And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying: “Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace, goodwill toward men!”
—Luke 2:13-14
Many of you are probably not familiar with this news story, but a anti-LGBTQ+ group called Clean Up Alabama (CUA) has been fighting to get Prattville Pride, Prattville, Alabama’s LGBTQ+ organization, removed form the annual Prattville Christmas Parade. I used to work in Prattville back when I was in college, and I have always hated the place. CUA stated, “The Christmas parade is a celebration of Christmas, the birth of Jesus Christ the Messiah. It is NOT a time to celebrate someone’s sexual preferences.” They obviously think the celebration of Christmas is a time to celebrate, not the message of Jesus Christ, but a message of hatefulness towards their fellow man (and women and non-binary, etc.). Let’s, for a moment, overlook the fact that Christmas was chosen to be on December 25 because it coincided with the Roman pagan holiday of Saturnalia and teh Winter Solstice, not the actual birth of Christ, and instead look at what should be the meaning of the holiday and the actions and symbols used to celebrate the season.
In Alabama, and my sister is one of them, they hate to say Happy Holidays instead of Merry Christmas or to use Xmas, because it highlights their Christian insecurities and takes the “CHRIST out of Christmas.” I wish they could all take my Art History class because they would find out that the X in Xmas is an old Christian tradition because it is part of the Chi Rho symbol. Early Christian art is filled with symbology to represent the meaning of the Christian faith.

Chi (X) and Rho (P) are the beginnings of the Greek word ΧΡΙΣΤΟΣ (Romanized: CHRISTOS). Before Emperor Constantine made Christianity legal in the Roman Empire, Christians were forced to hide their faith; however, they identified themselves with certain symbols: the cross and crucifix (the most commonly used symbols today), several different combinations of Greek letters (ichthys, Alpha and Omega, Chi Rho, IH monogram, IX monogram), the Good Shepherd, a dove, a peacock, or an anchor. Let us look at why these symbols were so important and meaningful to early Christians.
The ichthys (ἰχθύς in Greek, meaning “fish”) is a symbol consisting of two intersecting arcs that resemble the profile of a fish. The ichthys was used by early Christians as a secret symbol during times of persecution under the Roman Empire. It allowed them to identify themselves to one another discreetly. The Greek word ichthys also served as an acronym for the phrase: Ἰησοῦς Χριστὸς Θεοῦ Υἱὸς Σωτήρ (“Jesus Christ, Son of God, Savior”). Therefore, the ichthys represents Jesus Christ and the Christian faith. The fish itself is also significant because of its frequent appearance in the Gospels. The ichthys symbol is also a reference to the Holy Eucharist, with which the miracle of the multiplication of the loaves and fishes had such intimate connection both in point of time and significance. (Matthew 15:32–39 and Mark 8:1–9) It is also significant because Jesus called Peter and Andrew, both fishermen, to be His disciples. Mark 1: 16–18 says, “And as He walked by the Sea of Galilee, He saw Simon and Andrew his brother casting a net into the sea; for they were fishermen. Then Jesus said to them, ‘Follow Me, and I will make you become fishers of men.’ They immediately left their nets and followed Him.”
The Alpha and Omega since the earliest Christianity of the first and the last letters of the Greek alphabet, alpha (α or Α) and omega (ω or Ω), derives from the statement said by Jesus in Revelation 22:13, “I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End, the First and the Last.” The first two letters of the name of Jesus in Greek (ΙΗΣΟΥΣ), iota (Ι) and eta (Η), sometime superimposed one on the other was also a well known and very early way to represent Christ. Another early form of the monogram of Christ, found in early Christian ossuaries in Palaestina, was formed by superimposing the first (capital) letters of the Greek words for Jesus and Christ, i.e. iota Ι and chi Χ, so that this monogram means “Jesus (ΙΗΣΟΥΣ)Christ ΧΡΙΣΤΟΣ.”
The image of the Good Shepherd, often with a sheep on his shoulders, is the most common of the symbolic representations of Christ found in the Catacombs of Rome, and it is related to the Parable of the Lost Sheep (Matthew 18:12–14 and Luke 15:3–7). The dove as a Christian symbol is of very frequent occurrence in ancient ecclesiastical art. According to Matthew 3:16, “When He had been baptized, Jesus came up immediately from the water; and behold, the heavens were opened to Him, and He saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting upon Him.” For this reason, the dove became a symbol of the Holy Spirit, and in general it occurs often in connection with early representations of baptism. Ancient Greeks believed that the flesh of peafowl did not decay after death, and so the peacock became a symbol of immortality. Early Christianity adopted this symbolism, and thus many early Christian paintings and mosaics show the peacock. Christians also adopted the anchor as a symbol of hope in future existence because the anchor was regarded in ancient times as a symbol of safety. For Christians, Christ is the unfailing hope of all who believe in him: Saint Peter, Saint Paul, and several of the early Church Fathers speak in this sense. The Hebrews 6:19 says, “This hope we have as an anchor of the soul, both sure and steadfast, and which enters the Presence behind the veil” connects the idea of hope with the symbol of the anchor.
Most Christians do not have a very good understanding of what the symbols they sometimes use mean, nor do they understand the significance of the early Christian symbols and the sacrifices that early Christians made to spread the Word of God. Too many Christians are spouting hate and wrapping it in theology, but they forget that we are all one in Christ. Galatians 3:28 says, “There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”
An Update on Prattville Pride and the Prattville Christmas Parade:
A few hours before the city of Prattville’s annual Christmas parade was to start, a Trump-appointed federal judge ordered the city to allow an LGBTQ+ pride group’s float to be included. Prattville Pride called the order “a powerful affirmation of the importance of visibility, representation, and inclusion for all members of our community,” in a Facebook post.
In his order, U.S. District Judge R. Austin Huffaker of the Middle District of Alabama wrote: “While there are areas of unprotected speech, such as incitement of violence, the City makes no argument and provides no evidence that Prattville Pride has engaged in any speech or behavior that would remotely fall into an unprotected speech category. It is undisputed that Prattville Pride has complied with the City’s regulations.”
“The City removed Prattville Pride from the parade based on its belief that certain members of the public who oppose Prattville Pride, and what it stands for, would react in a disruptive way. But discrimination based on a message’s content “cannot be tolerated under the First Amendment,” the order continued.
Moment of Zen: Cat Dads

According to a recent survey, when given a choice, almost 60% of women prefer dating a man who owns a dog to dating a man who owns a cat. And almost 20% of women say they find Cat Dads to be somewhat or very unattractive versus only 5% who say the same about Dog Dads. The survey also found that men holding cats in their dating profile pics were viewed as 25% less attractive than even their selfie-taking counterparts who were not holding a pet at all. This survey tells me one thing, there are more Cat Dads for gay men. I am not a dog person, and honestly, I find men with dogs to be slightly more unattractive. I have a bit of a fear of dogs, so when I meet a guy who says he has a dog, it makes me pause to consider the attractiveness of the guy, because attractiveness is more than just physical aesthetics.

I also think that a man who has a cat is more likely to be kinder than a man who considers himself a dog person. That doesn’t mean I think badly of dog lovers but until you experience cats firsthand, you can’t really tell what it is to love and be loved by a cat.



















