The Journey

The Journey
by Mary Oliver

One day you finally knew
what you had to do, and began,
though the voices around you
kept shouting
their bad advice—
though the whole house
began to tremble
and you felt the old tug
at your ankles.
“Mend my life!”
each voice cried.
But you didn’t stop.
You knew what you had to do,
though the wind pried
with its stiff fingers
at the very foundations,
though their melancholy
was terrible.
It was already late
enough, and a wild night,
and the road full of fallen
branches and stones.
But little by little,
as you left their voices behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do—
determined to save
the only life you could save.

About the Poem

Mary Oliver’s poem “The Journey” is a deeply inspirational and metaphorical piece about personal transformation, self-discovery, and resilience. It describes the speaker’s realization that they must leave behind external voices and influences in order to forge their own path in life. The poem is often interpreted as an encouragement to break free from unhealthy situations, relationships, or societal expectations to embrace one’s own truth.

The poem begins with a sense of urgency—”One day you finally knew what you had to do, and began.” This opening line sets the stage for the journey as a necessary and inevitable step toward self-liberation. The speaker acknowledges that, although others may demand their attention and try to hold them back, they must move forward. Oliver vividly describes the external voices calling after the speaker, emphasizing how difficult it is to break away. These voices represent societal pressures, relationships, or even self-doubt that try to prevent change. The imagery of a storm and darkness conveys the challenges and emotional turmoil of making such a difficult decision.

Despite the hardships, the speaker persists, pushing forward into the unknown. The journey becomes symbolic of self-reliance and personal growth. The physical struggle in the poem mirrors an internal struggle to stay true to oneself despite fear and uncertainty. By the end of the poem, the speaker finds that the world begins to open up—”the stars began to burn through the sheets of clouds.” This suggests enlightenment, hope, and a sense of peace. The journey was painful, but it was necessary to achieve personal freedom and fulfillment.

“The Journey” is a poem about finding the strength to follow one’s own path despite external pressures. Mary Oliver’s simple yet profound language makes it a universal and uplifting piece that resonates with anyone undergoing a period of change or self-discovery. The poem ultimately affirms that, though the journey may be difficult, it is essential for living an authentic and fulfilled life.

About the Poet

Mary Oliver (1935–2019) was an American poet known for her deep connection to nature, spirituality, and the themes of self-discovery, love, and mindfulness. She was one of the most beloved contemporary poets, celebrated for her accessible yet profound writing style that resonated with readers across generations. Born in Maple Heights, Ohio, Oliver had a difficult childhood and found solace in nature and poetry. She was heavily influenced by poets such as Walt Whitman and Rainer Maria Rilke, whose themes of transcendence and deep observation of the world around them echoed in her own work. In her teenage years, she spent time at the home of poet Edna St. Vincent Millay, helping to organize Millay’s papers, which further shaped her literary career.

Oliver lived much of her life in Provincetown, Massachusetts, where she found inspiration in the coastal landscapes. She was in a long-term relationship with photographer Molly Malone Cook, who was also her literary agent. Their partnership greatly influenced Oliver’s poetry, often bringing themes of love and companionship into her work.

Mary Oliver’s poetry remains widely read and quoted, particularly in spiritual and self-help communities. Her work continues to inspire readers to embrace nature, self-reflection, and the beauty of everyday life. She was often compared to poets like Emily Dickinson and Robert Frost for her ability to capture deep truths in simple, evocative language. Her most famous lines, such as “Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” from “The Summer Day,” encapsulate the essence of her poetic vision—one of wonder, appreciation, and a call to live fully.

Thank you, Susan, for sending me this wonderful and thought provoking poem.

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I began my life in the South and for five years lived as a closeted teacher, but am now making a new life for myself as an oral historian in New England. I think my life will work out the way it was always meant to be. That doesn't mean there won't be ups and downs; that's all part of life. It means I just have to be patient. I feel like October 7, 2015 is my new birthday. It's a beginning filled with great hope. It's a second chance to live my life…not anyone else's. My profile picture is "David and Me," 2001 painting by artist Steve Walker. It happens to be one of my favorite modern gay art pieces. View all posts by Joe

One response to “The Journey

  • perfectionsecretlyd49ff66442's avatar perfectionsecretlyd49ff66442

    Wonderful timing in sharing this, Joe! My retirement community is undergoing a lot of challenges right now and more than a few people are stirring the pot and adding to the drama. Quite honestly, a lot of this behavior is cruel since many here are unable to process information…so they accept things at face value and it escalates anxiety. I’ll share an example. Last week at supper someone said that two different women fell in their apartments and when they pushed the panic button we are issued, that no one came!!! So I ask, “well, if no one came, how did they get off the floor?” Obviously someone came. I heard one woman say she had fallen and laid on her bathroom floor for three days. i asked if she had a clock in her bathroom…well, no…again, a major exaggeration but unfortunately many people around here have limited experience with critical thinking….and they just accept these tales, embellish them and spread them. It’s enough to make me want to scream! Of course it goes on in any similar place…Well, anyway thanks for the poem!

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