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I began my life in the South and for five years lived as a closeted teacher, but am now making a new life for myself as an oral historian in New England. I think my life will work out the way it was always meant to be. That doesn't mean there won't be ups and downs; that's all part of life. It means I just have to be patient. I feel like October 7, 2015 is my new birthday. It's a beginning filled with great hope. It's a second chance to live my life…not anyone else's. My profile picture is "David and Me," 2001 painting by artist Steve Walker. It happens to be one of my favorite modern gay art pieces.

Going Home

I’m about to start getting ready for my day. I have conference stuff this morning including a field trip to a museum, then we will hit the road to head home. I can’t wait to see Isabella. She’ll probably spend the first hour telling me how displeased she was that I was gone and how happy she is that I am back. She’ll demand attention and lots of petting. I can’t wait. I love that little girl. It’s going to be a long day. It’s been a long week with a lot of disappointment, but the week is almost over. I’ll be back home soon, but for now, I need to take a shower and get ready for my day.

Even with the disappointment I know we have all felt this week, try and have a wonderful weekend! I’m taking a friend car shopping tomorrow, and it will be so nice spending the day with her.


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Waking Up

I woke up this morning with a headache. I hope it will bet better as the day goes on because it is going to be a long day. I’m still at my conference and have sessions to attend this morning, then sightseeing this afternoon, and dinner with coworkers tonight. I may go back to bed for a while though. Have a good day everyone!


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Devastated

I woke up this morning just before they called Wisconsin for Trump. I cannot convey how devastated I feel right now that the news has called the race for Donald Trump. How can so many Americans be so FUCKING STUPID? When I saw the results, a wave of nausea hit me immediately. I honestly don’t know how democracy will survive in the United States, or how the country itself will survive another Trump administration. I hate this fucking country! That’s all I can say right now.  I hate this fucking country! I am completely devastated and am going to just crawl back in bed. This is a nightmare.


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United

United
By Naomi Shihab Nye

When sleepless, it’s helpful to meditate on mottoes of the states.
South Carolina, “While I breathe I hope.” Perhaps this could be
the new flag on the empty flagpole.
Or “I Direct” from Maine—why?
Because Maine gets the first sunrise? How bossy, Maine!
Kansas, “To the Stars through Difficulties”—
clackety wagon wheels, long, long land
and the droning press of heat—cool stars, relief.
In Arkansas, “The People Rule”—lucky you.
Idaho, “Let It Be Perpetual”—now this is strange.
Idaho, what is your “it”?
Who chose these lines?
How many contenders?
What would my motto be tonight, in tangled sheets?
Texas—“Friendship”—now boasts the Open Carry law.
Wisconsin, where my mother’s parents are buried,
chose “Forward.”
New Mexico, “It Grows As It Goes”—now this is scary.
Two dangling its. This does not represent that glorious place.
West Virginia, “Mountaineers Are Always Free”—really?
Washington, you’re wise.
What could be better than “By and By”?
Oklahoma must be tired—“Labor Conquers all Things.”
Oklahoma, get together with Nevada, who chose only
“Industry” as motto. I think of Nevada as a playground
or mostly empty. How wrong we are about one another.
For Alaska to pick “North to the Future”
seems odd. Where else are they going?

About the Poem

“United” by Naomi Shihab Nye is a poignant poem that explores themes of connection, identity, and the shared experiences of humanity. The poem emphasizes the interconnectedness of people across different cultures and backgrounds in the United States. Nye often highlights how shared experiences can bridge divides, fostering a sense of community. Nye reflects on her own cultural background and how it shapes her identity. The poem suggests that our individual stories contribute to a larger narrative of humanity. The poem encourages readers to cultivate empathy for others, suggesting that understanding and compassion can lead to a more united world. I thought this poem was particularly significant for this Election Day because it’s the message I would hope people would think of when they go and vote today.

Nye’s style is characterized by its simplicity and clarity, making complex emotions accessible. The poem may utilize vivid imagery and concrete details to evoke feelings and create a sense of place. The tone is reflective and hopeful, inviting readers to consider their own connections to others. Nye’s voice often conveys warmth and sincerity, reinforcing the poem’s message of unity. Nye uses rich imagery to draw readers into her experiences, making abstract concepts of connection and identity tangible. This imagery serves to create emotional resonance, allowing readers to visualize and feel the connections being described.

“United” serves as a reminder of the importance of recognizing our shared humanity. Through her eloquent language and thoughtful exploration of identity and connection, Nye invites readers to reflect on their own relationships and the ways in which we can come together, despite differences.

Alabama’s State Motto

Alabama did not have a state motto until 1868 as the original seal of Alabama did not contain a state motto but features a map affixed to a living tree showing one of the state’s most valuable resources—its major rivers. The first motto “Here We Rest” was adopted by the Reconstruction Era state legislature on December 29, 1868, for use on the state’s first coat of arms and second seal of Alabama. It depicted a bald eagle atop an American shield, holding a banner inscribed with the motto “Here We Rest” in its beak. This phrase was meant to convey a sense of hospitality and refuge, suggesting that Alabama was a welcoming place where travelers could rest. However, in 1939, at the request of Governor Frank M. Dixon, the original concept of a map design was returned to use, and the current official state motto changed to “Audemus jura nostra defendere,” which translates to “We Dare Defend Our Rights.” This reflects a strong emphasis on pride, self-determination, and resilience, and it became the formal motto to better represent Alabama’s values and spirit. Too bad, Alabama changed their motto and “Here We Rest” was still the values and spirit of Alabama. However, to be truthful, “We Dare Defend Our Rights” does reflect the current attitude of Alabama, because if you are different than the white Republican majority in the state, then you will not rest there.

Vermont’s State Motto

“Freedom and Unity” is the official motto of the U.S. state of Vermont. The motto was first adopted in 1788 for use on the Great Seal of the Vermont Republic. Following Vermont’s admission to the United States in 1791, the legislature once more approved the use of the motto for the new state seal. Vermont’s first governor, Thomas Chittenden, cited the state motto in his epitaph: “Out of storm and manifold perils rose an enduring state, the home of freedom and unity.” There is general agreement that Vermont’s motto is about the idea of balancing two seemingly opposite ideals: the personal freedom and independence of the individual citizen, with the common good of the larger community. By Vermont statute the motto Freedom and Unity is applied to the Great Seal, coat of arms, and flag of Vermont.

About the Poet

Naomi Shihab Nye is an acclaimed American poet, novelist, and anthologist, known for her powerful explorations of identity, culture, and the human experience. Born on March 12, 1952, in St. Louis, Missouri, she is the daughter of a Palestinian father and an American mother, which deeply influences her work and perspective. Nye spent her childhood in both the United States and Jerusalem, giving her a unique cross-cultural viewpoint. This diverse background informs much of her poetry, as she navigates themes of belonging, displacement, and connection. She studied at the University of Texas at Austin, where she earned her degree in English and began to develop her writing career.

Nye’s poetry often reflects her experiences and observations about the world, addressing issues such as war, peace, and cultural identity. She has published numerous collections of poetry, including “Different Ways to Pray,” “Words Under the Words,” and “The Tiny Journalist,” each showcasing her ability to capture the nuances of life with compassion and insight. In addition to poetry, Nye has written novels for young adults and essays, and she is a sought-after speaker and educator, conducting workshops and readings across the country. Her work often emphasizes the importance of empathy and understanding in a divided world. Throughout her career, Nye has received various awards, including the Arab American National Museum’s Literature Award and the Isabella Gardner Poetry Award. She is also a two-time finalist for the National Book Award.

Nye currently resides in San Antonio, Texas, where she continues to write and teach. Her work resonates with readers of all ages, and she is celebrated for her ability to articulate the complexities of human emotions and experiences. Naomi Shihab Nye is regarded as a significant voice in contemporary poetry, championing themes of peace, diversity, and the power of language. Her writing not only connects with individual experiences but also invites broader reflections on the shared human condition.


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Travel Week

I’ll be at the museum today. I have to go to the dentist first to get a permanent crown to replace the temporary crown that I got a few weeks ago. After that, I will be at the museum. I have a few meetings and a few things to wrap up before I am out of the office for the rest of the week. I leave tomorrow for a museum conference in Newport, Rhode Island. I’m looking forward to this conference because I have always wanted to go to Newport. The city is most known for its Gilded Age mansions built by many of the nation’s wealthiest families as summer “cottages.” Newport is described in Edith Wharton’s novel The Age of Innocence, was featured often in the A&E Network television show America’s Castles, and most recently a summer vacation setting in the HBO series The Gilded Age. I will have tomorrow afternoon to explore the city before the conference officially begins on Wednesday. I already bought tickets to see The Breakers, a Renaissance Revival mansion, and Marble House, a Beaux Arts mansion, which were both built by the Vanderbilt family. As part of the conference, I will also be visiting a couple of museums in the area and listening to a lot of presentations.

By the way, if you are wondering, I have a neighbor coming to check on Isabella, and I have some cameras set up so I can check in on her. My neighbor checks on her food, makes sure her self-cleaning litter box is not stuck, and plays with her a little bit. I don’t have him feed her the wet food she likes because she won’t eat it if anyone besides me feeds her. I’m not sure why she is so finicky about who feeds her, but it’s a waste of the wet food to try to feed her. She’ll get wet food and lots of love when I get home. She doesn’t like being by herself and is always very happy to see me when I get home. I wish I could take her with me, but that’s not feasible.  She’ll be fine, and I can check on her to make sure everything is okay.

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Also, please go vote BLUE tomorrow if you haven’t voted already. I cast my ballot last week since I would not be here to vote tomorrow in person. Even if you are in a state where the result is a foregone conclusion Kamala Harris needs every vote she can get. She not only needs to win the Electoral College but also enough individual votes to provide definitive proof that she won. Trump will declare victory regardless, but the proof needs to be indisputable. We cannot let a wannabe fascist back in the White House. It’s also not enough to just vote BLUE for president, but we need to win majorities in both houses of Congress.


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