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About Joe

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I began my life in the South and for five years lived as a closeted teacher, but am now making a new life for myself as an oral historian in New England. I think my life will work out the way it was always meant to be. That doesn't mean there won't be ups and downs; that's all part of life. It means I just have to be patient. I feel like October 7, 2015 is my new birthday. It's a beginning filled with great hope. It's a second chance to live my life…not anyone else's. My profile picture is "David and Me," 2001 painting by artist Steve Walker. It happens to be one of my favorite modern gay art pieces.

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Long Day

It’s going to be a long day, and this is going to be a short post. I don’t have to work tonight like I normally do when I say I have a long day ahead. In fact, I’ll be leaving work early today. No, it will be a long day because it starts out with teaching a new class. I’ve taught classes similar to this one, but this has some clear differences. I have my fingers crossed that it goes smoothly. There isn’t as much to do during the middle of the day, but I have to leave work early because I have a dentist appointment. It’s time to get the crown on the tooth I recently had a root canal done. It’s going to be a long day of dreading that appointment.


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October

October
By Evalyn Callahan Shaw

October is the month that seems
All woven with midsummer dreams;
She brings for us the golden days
That fill the air with smoky haze,
She brings for us the lisping breeze
And wakes the gossips in the trees,
Who whisper near the vacant nest
Forsaken by its feathered guest.
Now half the birds forget to sing,
And half of them have taken wing,
Before their pathway shall be lost
Beneath the gossamer of frost.
Zigzag across the yellow sky,
They rustle here and flutter there,
Until the boughs hang chill and bare,
What joy for us—what happiness
Shall cheer the day the night shall bless?
’Tis hallowe’en, the very last
Shall keep for us remembrance fast,
When every child shall duck the head
To find the precious pippin red.

About this Poem

“October” by Evalyn Callahan Shaw is a poem that reflects on the beauty and transience of life, as symbolized by the month of October. October is often seen as a time of transition, where nature shifts from the vibrancy of summer to the decay and dormancy of winter. In literature and poetry, this month often represents both endings and the subtle beauty of change.

Shaw’s poem can be interpreted as a meditation on the fleeting nature of life and the inevitable passage of time. The vivid imagery typically associated with October — falling leaves, crisp air, shorter days — evokes both a sense of nostalgia and acceptance. The poem may emphasize how, just like the changing seasons, life moves through cycles, with each phase having its own unique beauty, even as it leads to eventual decline.

Though not as widely known as some classic poems, “October” likely touches on themes of impermanence, reflection, and the bittersweet beauty found in the natural world during autumn.

About the Poet

Evalyn Callahan Shaw was a poet born around 1861 in Wagoner, Indian Territory, a part of the Creek Nation. She is often associated with various names, including Eva, Evelyn, or Jane Evylin. Shaw’s work reflects her background as the daughter of Samuel Benton Callahan, a prominent figure within the Creek Nation.


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Who else takes off their work clothes as soon as they get home?


Ugh! It’s Monday

This weekend just wasn’t long enough. I have a pretty busy week ahead. I have several classes to teach, at least one VIP tour to give, a few meetings, and to top it all off, I have to go to the dentist to have a tooth prepped for a crown. However, all I want to do this morning is to crawl back in bed, but one of those classes I mentioned is today. Hopefully, the headache I woke up with this morning will go away as the day goes on. Usually, when I wake with a migraine, it goes away by mid-morning. I hope that’s how today goes.

I hope everyone has a wonderful week! 


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Perseverance

Let your eyes look straight ahead, and your eyelids look right before you. Ponder the path of your feet and let all your ways be established.

—Proverbs 4:25-26

Adversity is defined as difficulties or problems that arise during the course of something. In other words, it’s when things don’t go as planned. In life, we will all face adversities big and small. Some adversity seems to come from left field and other challenges we bring on ourselves. No matter how or why it happens, nobody is immune to adversity. James 1:2 says, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds.” The verse encourages believers to see challenges and difficulties as opportunities for growth rather than as mere misfortunes. James suggests that trials test and strengthen faith, leading to perseverance and spiritual maturity. Instead of being discouraged, the verse calls for a positive attitude towards adversity, recognizing that these experiences can develop one’s character and deepen one’s relationship with God. Perseverance is the quality that allows us to continue working toward our goals even when things are tough. It’s what allows us to get back up after we’ve been knocked down. It is what keeps us going when everything else tells us to quit.

Romans 5:3-5 says, “And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.” This passage emphasizes the idea that suffering can lead to positive outcomes. Paul in his epistle to the Romans suggests that we can rejoice in our sufferings because they produce perseverance, character, and hope. Suffering is a part of life, but it’s not without purpose. Perseverance allows us to endure difficulties and helps us build resilience. As we persevere, our character develops a deeper sense of integrity and strength. The process ultimately leads to a hope that is grounded in God’s love, which is poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit. Overall, these two passages reassure us that challenges can foster spiritual growth and a deeper relationship with God.

Nelson Mandela once said, “The greatest glory in life does not lie in never falling, but in standing up every time you fall.” We all look for a purpose in life, something we will exceed at, will make us happy, and hopefully make an impact while on this earth. Sometimes we feel like we are failing at everything, but I have always believed that God has a plan for us. Mandela’s quote emphasizes the importance of resilience and perseverance. It suggests that true success and greatness come not from avoiding mistakes or failures but from the ability to recover and learn from them. Life inevitably involves setbacks, but the way we respond to these challenges—by getting back up and continuing to strive towards our goals—defines our strength and character. This mindset encourages embracing difficulties as opportunities for growth rather than as barriers to success.

Helen Keller’s conveyed a similar idea of focusing on the positive aspects of life rather than dwelling on negativity when she said, “Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow.” By directing our attention to the “sunshine”—symbolizing hope, optimism, and positivity—we naturally avoid being consumed by the “shadows” of fear, doubt, or hardship. Keller, who overcame the significant challenges of being both blind and deaf, used this metaphor to inspire others to maintain a hopeful outlook, regardless of life’s difficulties. It’s a reminder that where we place our focus can shape our perception and experience of life.

The Book of James is a constant inspiration for how to live a Christian life. In James 1:12, he says, “Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.” James is saying that those who persevere under trial are blessed, and that they will receive the “crown of life” promised by God to those who love Him. The connection between enduring trials and loving God underscores that true faith involves devotion and trust, even amidst suffering. James 1:12 encourages believers to view trials as opportunities for growth and assurance of God’s promises. Revelation 2:19 states, “I know your works, love, service, faith, and your patience; and as for your works, the last are more than the first.” This underscores the importance of maintaining good works and faith in the face of challenges, while also recognizing and affirming the positive actions of the church. It’s a call to continue in our commitment and service.

In Romans 12:9-12, Paul writes, “Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good. Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another; not lagging in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord; rejoicing in hope, patient in tribulation, continuing steadfastly in prayer; distributing to the needs of the saints, given to hospitality.” Romans 12:9-12 reminds us how to live out a Christian life characterized by genuine love and community. John encourages us to love genuinely, without hypocrisy, to reject evil and cling to what is good, to promote mutual love and honor among believers, to serve the Lord with fervor and diligence, and to encourage rejoicing in hope, being patient in affliction, and persistent in prayer. We are told to embody love, integrity, and faithfulness in our relationships and remain steadfast in our commitment to God, regardless of circumstances.

My friend Casey (thank you) brought up another verse that is apropos to this post: “But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive.” —Genesis 50:20


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Moment of Zen: Reading