After a discussion with her therapist, Ellen decides to tell the truth about her true repressed sexual orientation to her friends by inviting them over to her apartment to break the news so she can be at peace. Meanwhile, Ellen’s hopes for a relationship with Susan are dashed when she tells Ellen that she’s not interested, but gives Ellen further confidence to embrace her newfound life.
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After a discussion with her therapist, Ellen decides to tell the truth about her true repressed sexual orientation to her friends by inviting them over to her apartment to break the news so she can be at peace. Meanwhile, Ellen’s hopes for a relationship with Susan are dashed when she tells Ellen that she’s not interested, but gives Ellen further confidence to embrace her newfound life.
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Gay Marry-Land
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| Maryland Governor Martin O’Malley, centre, greets supporters and members of the House of Delegates after the House passed a gay marriage bill in Annapolis, Maryland |
Gay marriage is all but legalised in the state of Maryland after the legislature gave its final agreement on Thursday to the law that’s being sent to the governor, who said he expects to sign it sometime this week.
The state senate voted 25-22 for the law. The vote comes less than a week after the House of Delegates barely passed the measure.
Maryland will become the eighth state to allow gay marriage when Governor Martin O’Malley who sponsored the bill signs the legislation. The Democrat made the measure a priority this session after it stalled last year.
Six states allow gay couples to wed Connecticut, New Hampshire, Iowa, Massachusetts, New York and Vermont as well as the Washington capital district. The governor of Washington signed a bill this month that would make that state the seventh.
Opponents in Maryland have vowed to bring the measure to referendum in November. They will need to gather at least 55,726 valid signatures of Maryland voters to put it on the ballot and can begin collecting names now that the bill has passed both chambers.
Some churches and clergy members have spoken out against the bill, saying it threatens religious freedoms and violates their tradition of defining marriage as between a man and a woman.
“The enormous public outcry that this legislation has generated voiced by Marylanders that span political, racial, social and religious backgrounds demonstrates a clear need to take this issue to a vote of the people,” Maryland Catholic Conference spokeswoman Kathy Dempsey said in a statement. “Every time this issue has been brought to a statewide vote, the people have upheld traditional marriage.”
Leaders at the Human Rights Campaign, a group that joined a coalition of organisations to advocate for the bill, said they expect opponents will gather the required number of signatures.
Senator Allan Kittleman, the only senate Republican to vote in favuor of the legislation, said he is proud of his decision and not concerned about political consequences down the road.
“You don’t worry about politics when you’re dealing with the civil rights issue of your generation,” said Kittleman, R-Howard, the son of the late Senator Robert Kittleman, who was known for civil rights advocacy.
Gay marriage remains on hold in California after opponents petitioned a federal appeals court on Tuesday to review a split decision by three of its judges that struck down a voter-approved measure that limited marriage to a man and woman.
Red-Faced Jazz
A U.K.-based radio station’s programmers are understandably red-faced after they inadvertently aired five minutes of a gay porn soundtrack.
Pink News reports that Jazz FM, which focuses on light jazz, standards and occasional blues numbers, aired a recording of what sounded like “two British men in a mostly wordless, but fairly graphic, exchange” on Sunday.
You can listen to a recording of the broadcast here (WARNING: contains graphic language).
Mike Vitti, the station’s head of programming, has issued a statement apologizing for the gaffe: “Unfortunately we had an unauthorized access to the live feed this evening which resulted in a highly regrettable incident. Please accept our profound and sincere apologies for any offence that may have been caused.”
Mike Vitti, station programme director, said disciplinary action would follow.
A spokesman for the broadcasting regulator Ofcom told PinkNews.co.uk that it has “received a small number of complaints and is currently assessing whether the broadcast broke the Broadcasting Code”. If found in breach, broadcasters can receive a fine or the loss of a license although this is thought highly unlikely in this case.
PinkNews.co.uk wrote that a broadcast assistant was watching pornography while the recorded show was being broadcast and that they accidentally transmitted the audio of the porn to the nation because their microphone was erroneously active.
Edwin Arlington Robinson
I recently made my American Literature students read some of the poems of Edwin Arlington Robinson. I will admit that I was not terribly familiar with him, but we are studying American poetry, and he was one of the poets. The poems were fairly short and fairly straightforward, meaning that it would be easy for the kids to interpret. I read the poems and fell in love with them. Since then, I have gone back and read a few more of Robinson’s poems, and enjoyed them. The two poems that we read, sort of resonated with me in a special way.
On December 22, 1869, Edwin Arlington Robinson was born in Head Tide, Maine. His family moved to Gardiner, Maine, in 1870, which renamed “Tilbury Town,” became the backdrop for many of Robinson’s poems. His poems are sketches about different people in the town. If you have never read the two poems below, I hope that you will read them now, or if you have read them before, I hope that you will enjoy them all over again.
The first poem is Richard Cory:
Richard Cory
by Edwin Arlington Robinson
Whenever Richard Cory went down town,
We people on the pavement looked at him:
He was a gentleman from sole to crown,
Clean favored and imperially slim.
And he was always quietly arrayed,
And he was always human when he talked,
But still he fluttered pulses when he said,
“Good-morning,” and he glittered when he walked.
And he was rich–yes, richer than a king–
And admirably schooled in every grace:
In fine, we thought that he was everything
To make us wish that we were in his place.
So on we worked, and waited for the light,
And went without the meat and cursed the bread;
And Richard Cory, one calm summer night,
Went home and put a bullet through his head.
The two major things in this poem the wealth of Richard Cory and his suicide at the end are not what draws me to this poem. I am not rich nor do I contemplate suicide. This poem, which first appeared in The Children of the Night and remains one of Robinson’s most popular poems, recalls the economic depression of 1893. At that time, people could not afford meat and had a diet mainly of bread, often day-old bread selling for less than freshly baked goods. This hard-times experience made the townspeople even more aware of Richard’s difference from them, so much so that they treated him as royalty. I think what I get out of this poem is how he doesn’t fit in because of something extraordinary about him. In his case it is his wealth. In my case, people often see me as smart and don’t often see me as a regular person. I can tell a dirty joke, drink a beer, and be just as normal as the next person, but sometimes, people see my intelligence and often think, “He’s too smart for me.” Or maybe because I am gay (or perceived as gay for those who don’t know for sure), people think that I do not enjoy sports, fishing, or other “manly” pursuits. To truth is, I am just a normal guy who is smart and gay. Neither of those are the central things about me. We all have something that distinguishes us, but should that separate us from the crowd. Maybe sometimes it does, and sometimes we want it to, but all in all, we are just people like everyone else. Sadly, the people of Tilbury Town did not realize this about Richard Cory.
The other poem is the way I sometimes feel when I am studying particular periods in history.
Miniver Cheevy
by Edwin Arlington Robinson
Miniver Cheevy, child of scorn,
Grew lean while he assailed the seasons;
He wept that he was ever born,
And he had reasons.
Miniver loved the days of old
When swords were bright and steeds were prancing;
The vision of a warrior bold
Would set him dancing.
Miniver sighed for what was not,
And dreamed, and rested from his labors;
He dreamed of Thebes and Camelot,
And Priam’s neighbors.
Miniver mourned the ripe renown
That made so many a name so fragrant;
He mourned Romance, now on the town,
And Art, a vagrant.
Miniver loved the Medici,
Albeit he had never seen one;
He would have sinned incessantly
Could he have been one.
Miniver cursed the commonplace
And eyed a khaki suit with loathing;
He missed the mediæval grace
Of iron clothing.
Miniver scorned the gold he sought
But sore annoyed was he without it;
Miniver thought, and thought, and thought,
And thought about it.
Miniver Cheevy, born too late,
Scratched his head and kept on thinking;
Miniver coughed, and called it fate,
And kept on drinking.
We may not take it as far as Miniver Cheevy, but I think all people who study history sometimes feel that they were born in the wrong time. Then again, there have been very few times in history when it was as acceptable to be gay as it in this day and age, but then again who wouldn’t have loved to witness the Olympic Games of Ancient Greece, or traveled down the canals of Venice when the city was in its full glory, or any number of periods or events in history. Personally, though I would love to visit those time periods, I like my modern conveniences and air conditioning. Then again, the Roaring Twenties when I could have possibly partied with F. Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald and Tallulah Bankhead or sat on the Seine with the Lost Generation or gone to the Cotton Club in Harlem at the height of the Harlem Renaissance. Come to think of it, maybe, I was born out of time. I think I would have loved the 1920s (just not the Great Depression that followed).
How many of you have felt that you were born in the wrong time? Or that people didn’t appreciate you for who you are?
And Now for the Answers…
I hope you enjoyed this Presidents’ Day and that you had fun reviewing some of my posts about gay (or not) presidents. I also hope that you enjoyed the quiz. Now it is time to see if you got the answers correct.
1. What is the birth state of the most presidents?
Correct answer: Virginia
2. How many U.S. presidencies have there been?
Correct answer: 44
3. Who was the first president to live in the White House?
Correct answer: John Adams
4. Which is NOT true about Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address?
Correct answer: He wrote out the address on the back of an envelope on the train to Gettysburg.
5. Fill in the missing words in the president’s oath of office: “I do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will faithfully execute the Office of President of the United States, and will to the best of my Ability, —, — and — the Constitution of the United States.”
Correct answer: Preserve, protect and defend
6. True or false: George Washington owned many slaves but decided to free them in his will.
Correct answer: True
7. Who was the only president to serve two nonconsecutive terms?
Correct answer: Grover Cleveland
8. Lincoln was virtually unknown in the Republican Party in 1858 when he challenged the powerful U.S. Sen. Stephen Douglas of Illinois. The two debated seven times between July and October of that year. Which is NOT correct?
Correct answer: As a result of the debates, Lincoln beat Douglas but was only in the U.S. Senate for a short time because he beat him again to become president in 1860.
9. Four presidents were assassinated in office, and four others died from other causes. What killed William Henry Harrison?
Correct answer: Pneumonia and pleurisy
10. What was Woodrow Wilson’s nickname?
Correct answer: The Professor
Abraham Lincoln, Gay?
If you want just my opinion on this controversial issue, this would be a very short post, because I don’t think he was gay. However, there is a lot of controversy over this issue, and I thought I would give a closer look for you guys.
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Joshua Speed
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Same-Sex Marriage
Research has shown that marriage provides substantial psychological and physical health benefits due to the moral, economic and social support extended to married couples. Conversely, recent empirical evidence has illustrated the harmful psychological effect of policies restricting marriage rights for same-sex couples. Additionally, children raised by same-sex couples have been shown to be on par with the children of opposite-sex couples in their psychological adjustment, cognitive abilities and social functioning.





















