Dreams šŸ˜“šŸ’­

Dreams can be such strange things. I often don’t remember mine, but last night, I had an interesting one. I dreamed about a guy I used to know in high school named Brandon. I can’t even remember his last name. The strange part is that I haven’t even thought about him in years. We were in the same class but never particularly close nor do I ever remember finding him attractive. He also wasn’t gay as far as I knew, but I also don’t remember him dating any girls in high school either. He wasn’t ugly and was ā€œmasculineā€ for a teenager (I’m pretty sure he’d been on the football team), but honestly, he just wasn’t that memorable (although, apparently he was in my subconscious?). I remember in the dream though that he had a kind of quirky smile, almost a smirk. He was a bit of a joker and class clown. That’s all I really remember about the guy.

Anyway, in the dream, I was planning a date with him. I was going to make him an Italian dinner. I asked him if he liked chicken piccata, and he said he didn’t know. He’d never had it. I explained what it is, and he was intrigued but said the only Italian chicken dish he’d ever had was chicken parmesan. So, I said, ā€œIn that case, I’ll make you a sampler of three different Italian chicken dishes: chicken parmesan, chicken piccata, and pollo al vino.ā€ Normally, with all three of these dishes, I’d have usually preferred to make them with veal not chicken, so I’m not sure why chicken it was chicken in the dream. I also told him that I’d make risotto because I suspected he’d had pasta before but never risotto which I explained is a rice dish.

Then, I woke up before I could plan a salad, vegetables, or a dessert to round out the meal. It was around 2 am when I woke from this dream. I thought, this would make a good blog post, but if I waited until I woke in the morning, I’d have forgotten it. Plus, I needed to pee, so I got up with my phone and typed this out and check the progress of our snowfall before going back to sleep.

I wanted to check the snow because it had not started snowing when I went to bed last night. The rain we had all day yesterday was predicted to turn to snow sometimes after midnight. We were forecasted to get between 5-10 inches of snow overnight. The original forecast a day or so ago had said 9.45 inches but when I’d looked just before I went to bed, it said 5.15 inches. I checked as I was writing this, and the current prediction is 4.95 inches. I’m always intrigued by how specific (not necessarily accurate) the snowfall was in this weather app. Anyway, when I looked out, it was less than an inch of snow.

Then, I went back to sleep wondering how the meal would have actually gone, and what would have happened after the meal.

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I began my life in the South and for five years lived as a closeted teacher, but am now making a new life for myself as an oral historian in New England. I think my life will work out the way it was always meant to be. That doesn't mean there won't be ups and downs; that's all part of life. It means I just have to be patient. I feel like October 7, 2015 is my new birthday. It's a beginning filled with great hope. It's a second chance to live my life…not anyone else's. My profile picture is "David and Me," 2001 painting by artist Steve Walker. It happens to be one of my favorite modern gay art pieces. View all posts by Joe

3 responses to “Dreams šŸ˜“šŸ’­

  • cutlover's avatar cutlover

    Joe

    I don’t think anyone can remember a dream for more than a few minutes after waking up, save perhaps for regular dream themes. I think either Freud or Jung recommended keeping a dreams diary, which I try to do. This forms part of a larger diary including my sexual encounters.

    As you get older the memory forgets but even a few comments on the pages act as a catalyst to bring back many memories.

    As for the sleepy chap in the pic, yummmmm. I’d cook for him any day!! But I find sex on a full stomach is not good for passion. Far better to get him into asap bed after a glass of wine and eat later. Perhaps make him a decent breakfast in the morning after a final fling at 7am.

  • cutlover's avatar cutlover

    Joe, as a PS I noticed the Norwegian and US flags side by side behind the sleeper. Then by bizarre coincidence I read a piece on line from the NY Post for today that a Norwegian couple from Lansing, Michigan, had bought a Civil War period house and turned it into a bed and breakfast. Outside the house they also flew both the US Stars and Stripes and their Norwegian flag.

    In no time at all they received numerous complaints of racism from locals for flying the Confederate flag! To compound the couple’s hurt, they had even adopted two black kids.

    https://nypost.com/2020/07/29/norwegian-flag-removed-from-inn-after-its-mistaken-for-confederate-flag/

    I am not American and would be loathe to comment on those locals but it does seem to indicate a high degree of ignorance or stupidity or perhaps insularity! Ok, their colours are both red, white and blue, but then so are the Dutch and French and British Union flags and I never heard of anyone here confusing them!

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